lyturt
Member
I too didn't tell people before my bypass. I didn't want them feeling me I was fine as I was and relaying horror stories. I sympathize with you and hope you show them that you can use your chance to be hinterland healthier to overcome this upset. I don't think people realise that we need to protect ourselves from being the object of people's chatter because this our own private battle with our demons and we need to feel comfortable with ourselves before allowing anyone else in. I hope all goes well for you