I know exactly how you feel it was a bit awkward for me cos only my close family know I had the op I left hospital and went straight to my daughter party I was still in a bit discomfort and felt like I was hobbling about I wasn't really able to join in with the party games and dancing, when people asked me what was wrong I said I'd had my gall bladder out haha! The strangest thing is my daughter goes to school with my surgeons son so my surgeon was at the party! I'm 9 weeks post op now I think and I have lost just under 3 stone I feel fantastic getting used to the amount I can eat now some days are tough cos I really miss fizzy drinks but it's a small sacrifice to make xx