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The great band journey

They are really on the ball with fills! Xx
 
Sorry guys just need to get some crap out... Need to write it down somewhere!
As I've said before I've got 3 kids, my eldest & youngest have Autism and ADHD respectively, which has always meant they have had issues with their behaviour
My middle one has dyspraxia and dyslexia, but behaviour wise he has always been the nicest kindest little boy you'll ever meet. Very mild mannered, always willing to help. Well that is until recently, his behaviour at home is slowly spiralling out of control, he's become rude, he's aggressive, he's not sleeping well and not eating well either, I'm lucky to get 1/2 a side plate down him at meal times, he often refuses breakfast, barely eats his packed lunch, and hates me cooking them a hot meal. I've just been to the school to try and talk to them, and they got a bit defensive at me, I think they thought o was saying it was there fault, which I'm not, but .something is making my little boy very unhappy, and I can't get to the bottom of it.
I feel so alone, trying to get any help for children is almost impossible so I just don't know where to turn. We need help, I need help.
I'm sorry I know this is way off topic, but I don't have anywhere else to turn, most people just don't understand how hard life is with the 3 of them.
I just want my little boy back
 
Aw moo. What a stressful situation. I am stressed just reading this thread. Sorry I can't suggest anything being childless myself but I'm sure someone may be along to offer some practical suggestions ((((Huggs))))
 
Hi moo82 is there not a care coordinator at their school who could not see if social,services can offer you help and I don't mean so they can get involved in an aggressive way, but sometimes the schools have these in place to help. Might be worth an ask. :)
 
Thanks guy, I feel much better after my little moan, the school want to see me tomorrow, so I'm sure we'll sort something out. He ate tea tonight because I cooked his favourite, but still only a side plate and he's 11!
Quite pleased with myself, didn't resort to eating which is always good! So sill have some calories left over for a hot chocolate with cream before bed :-@
 
Moo sounds super stressful I hope you can figure out what's bothering him soon! Well done with the full and weight loss that's fab x
 
Lost 1lb this week, have to admit I'm pretty disappointed with that, it is Totm so maybe it'll be better next week :-/
Oh well onwards and downwards...
 
Moo842 don't be disappointed a loss is a loss it's not easy all this loosing weight but your doing ok, of is of :)
 
I know Kirsty, struggling as I'm a daily weigher although I only record weekly, and it's been about 10 days now with no loss!! Today I have really upped my water in the hope that this will help!
 
Hi moo,trust me there's nothing consistent with this band lark,you seem to be doing just fine the average loss is 1-2 lb a week so don't get disheartened,all those pounds add up x
 
Sharon is an inspiration to me. She has consistent small losses that have added upto a huge amount over the months...that's the way to go. We will all get there in time. I really have to believe that xxxx
 
It really is so hard to stay focussed when the scales are budging :-( but your right I'm in this for the long haul! Plus I have my fill in 6 days so fingers crossed that'll make things a bit easier, it's hard as I spend most of my day feeling hungry!
 
moo842 said:
I know Kirsty, struggling as I'm a daily weigher although I only record weekly, and it's been about 10 days now with no loss!! Today I have really upped my water in the hope that this will help!
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scales away mrs :D give yourself a break....relax a bit as the others say, were in this for the long haul..... enjoy the journey, take time to smell the roses.......... not sure what the hurry is to get to the end.....thats when the hard work begins :) x x x 1-2lb is what the average is so your doing perfect !!!
 
It's that time again, weigh day...
This week I have lost 3lb! So that's 36lb so pleased with that!
Have my next fill tomorrow, excited but am slightly nervous, shouldn't be, but it's a different hospital and different nurse tomorrow :-/
 
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