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hopelesscase
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well as some of you know from my facebook things didnt go as planned and after an initial phone call on thursday morn in heard tiddly boo from him all day or all evening come to that. I then started looking round his face book and came accross a comment that gave me cause for concern and thought thats it hes seeing someone else as well as me. Another one bites the dust.
I was more annoyed at myself as i had changed my plans and couldnt undo them so was really cheesed off NYE and no where to go. But my son and his mates came to the rescue and insisted on me going out with them into Bolton.
I had a great time with them but left them at 1am so they could go clubbing.
When i got home i had had a missed call and though no way am i phoning him he can try again if he wants to speak to me but it better be good.
He phoned me yesturday at 10 am to wish me happy new year and also to appologise. I didnt give him an easy time but he basically had a wobble about how he felt emotionally about every thing. hes questioning why i would want to be with him, he comes accross as being very confident but digging deeper the fact that his wife had an affair whilst he was in the navy which he forgave her for but then when he came out of the navy she had another one has understandably left him with some insecurities. He was questioning why i would want to be with him as he thinks im gorgouse and thinks i could do much better than him.
i surgested he came round last night so we could talk face to face which he did. What was more significant than that was that my son and his girfriend were in and it is the first time in 20 years that i have let anyone into our lives.
The more we talked the more we both realised that yes we both have our insecurities but im a firm believer in open communication and asked him about the face book comment he explained who she is and apparently its a standing joke between them. shes in panto with him and i will get to meet her at the after show party. (thats at the end of the month)
He really does make me feel good about myself, is very affectionate, laid back and more importantly makes me laugh.
I also discovered he didnt go to the house party either but just had a drink with his brother on NYE.
Im now back into my 19 nighs work schedual so actually going out isnt an option. has at the match thisafternoon but coming round for his tea after and will get to meet one of my little ones. Again we talked about the significance of this but i just feel that to get to know me he needs to understan how my job will effect things. My little one mum is fine with this and my son said after he had gone last night that he seems like an ok guy and as long as im happy thats fine.
Thanks to all you who lent me an ear the other night and the offere to come and kick butt.I really though thattthat was it but how wrong can you be. Still early days so can only see how things pan out but hopefully we have a better understanding of each other.
carole
I was more annoyed at myself as i had changed my plans and couldnt undo them so was really cheesed off NYE and no where to go. But my son and his mates came to the rescue and insisted on me going out with them into Bolton.
I had a great time with them but left them at 1am so they could go clubbing.
When i got home i had had a missed call and though no way am i phoning him he can try again if he wants to speak to me but it better be good.
He phoned me yesturday at 10 am to wish me happy new year and also to appologise. I didnt give him an easy time but he basically had a wobble about how he felt emotionally about every thing. hes questioning why i would want to be with him, he comes accross as being very confident but digging deeper the fact that his wife had an affair whilst he was in the navy which he forgave her for but then when he came out of the navy she had another one has understandably left him with some insecurities. He was questioning why i would want to be with him as he thinks im gorgouse and thinks i could do much better than him.
i surgested he came round last night so we could talk face to face which he did. What was more significant than that was that my son and his girfriend were in and it is the first time in 20 years that i have let anyone into our lives.
The more we talked the more we both realised that yes we both have our insecurities but im a firm believer in open communication and asked him about the face book comment he explained who she is and apparently its a standing joke between them. shes in panto with him and i will get to meet her at the after show party. (thats at the end of the month)
He really does make me feel good about myself, is very affectionate, laid back and more importantly makes me laugh.
I also discovered he didnt go to the house party either but just had a drink with his brother on NYE.
Im now back into my 19 nighs work schedual so actually going out isnt an option. has at the match thisafternoon but coming round for his tea after and will get to meet one of my little ones. Again we talked about the significance of this but i just feel that to get to know me he needs to understan how my job will effect things. My little one mum is fine with this and my son said after he had gone last night that he seems like an ok guy and as long as im happy thats fine.
Thanks to all you who lent me an ear the other night and the offere to come and kick butt.I really though thattthat was it but how wrong can you be. Still early days so can only see how things pan out but hopefully we have a better understanding of each other.
carole
queue on NYE-he'd of felt the full force of my pre-op boot-lol
hopelesscase
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Well he coped very well with my little one tonight. It never occured to me that there is me saying i didnt want anyone with young children and what do i have for 21 nights of the month!!!!
He ate his tea without choking on it shepherds pie with mixed root veg topping and whilst i was gettig little one ready for bed he washed up and made a brew.
house trained eh
job done lol!!!
He ate his tea without choking on it shepherds pie with mixed root veg topping and whilst i was gettig little one ready for bed he washed up and made a brew.
house trained eh
job done lol!!!
phatgirl
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Ahh, Carole I am so happy to read that you have worked things out. It really made me sad/mad that he was messing you about so I am glad that I don't have to kick his butt! Just trust your instincts and keeping working to have good communication, it is the only way forward. As for the kid thing, I think it is directly because of what you do as a job that you don't want a man with young children, it makes perfect sense.
Hugs and may all be well with your budding romance!
Nic
Hugs and may all be well with your budding romance!
Nic
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hopelesscase
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Thanks nic.
Well we wont see each other till thursday but he phoned me a couple of times yesturday and we also chatted on face book last night.
Hes back to work this morning and then has rehursals tonight and tomorrow i have rugby wed but have just been woken up by a lovely text message from him.
He is very witty and has a fantastic sence of humour mind you hes going to need it with me. But thinks hes landed on his feet. I cant go out for 19 nights so he comes drinks my coffee watches my tv even gets fed and when he does get to take me out its half portions. even cheaper date than he thought but i will make himpay in other ways !!! lol
Well we wont see each other till thursday but he phoned me a couple of times yesturday and we also chatted on face book last night.
Hes back to work this morning and then has rehursals tonight and tomorrow i have rugby wed but have just been woken up by a lovely text message from him.
He is very witty and has a fantastic sence of humour mind you hes going to need it with me. But thinks hes landed on his feet. I cant go out for 19 nights so he comes drinks my coffee watches my tv even gets fed and when he does get to take me out its half portions. even cheaper date than he thought but i will make himpay in other ways !!! lol
fatbutnot4eva
Loves her gorgeous family
Carole OMG I am running soo late now after reading this whole thread, i didnt realise you had so much "going on"
great to hear things are going well enjoy it you deserve the best x
great to hear things are going well enjoy it you deserve the best x
hopelesscase
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i was asked today if i was all loved up!!!!
Mmmmmmmmmmm no im not. its like ive known him for years and are really good friends. We talk about everything and anything but equally sat and watched tv the other night without uttering a word till the interval and it was then whos turn was it to make a brew.
We talk to each other daily on the phone sometimes a few times and also if we are on facebook or msn at the same time we will chat breifly.
I admit im really looking forward to seeing him tomorrow but thats looking doubtful with the snow so will just have to wait and see.
I started this thread as i was reminded that when upset or excited one thing that i had never been was an emotional eater in fact the opposite i stop eating well proof is in the pudding there as im back to eating normally without even thinking about it. lol
Mmmmmmmmmmm no im not. its like ive known him for years and are really good friends. We talk about everything and anything but equally sat and watched tv the other night without uttering a word till the interval and it was then whos turn was it to make a brew.
We talk to each other daily on the phone sometimes a few times and also if we are on facebook or msn at the same time we will chat breifly.
I admit im really looking forward to seeing him tomorrow but thats looking doubtful with the snow so will just have to wait and see.
I started this thread as i was reminded that when upset or excited one thing that i had never been was an emotional eater in fact the opposite i stop eating well proof is in the pudding there as im back to eating normally without even thinking about it. lol
fatbutnot4eva
Loves her gorgeous family
good on you x
hopelesscase
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well just a quick update. despite having been really rough this last week things are still going well. He literally called in a couple of times just to see how i was as he was concerned about me
Made his tea for him tonight as he starts in panto at weekend so not going to get to see each other over weekend and where as i wouldnt normally get to see him during the week because of work he took the time out to see me so fingers crossed.!!
Made his tea for him tonight as he starts in panto at weekend so not going to get to see each other over weekend and where as i wouldnt normally get to see him during the week because of work he took the time out to see me so fingers crossed.!!
dreamofbeingslim
Can't wait for next appt
Sounding good Carole.
fatbutnot4eva
Loves her gorgeous family
Carole how fab, what panto is he in (nosey) he's not the dame is he lol
you dont get many thoughtful blokes normally you end up doing all the running around soo good on him.
Hope it all works out x
you dont get many thoughtful blokes normally you end up doing all the running around soo good on him.
Hope it all works out x
hopelesscase
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Hes will in babe in the woods. Not a dame thank god LOL Although he has told me that if they do snow white next year i have a gaurenteed place no audition required. Cheeky sod.
chocchucky
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Carol hunny i really dont know where to start with this, its taken me ages to read the whole thing but once i started i couldnt stop. Boy oh boy what an interesting and exctiting few weeks you have had. It sounds like the one you have found now is really cool its fantastic you feel so relaxed and open with him, long may it continue, hope eveything goes really well for you both
I met my husband through a dating agency and would highly recommend it i had a blast with it, we've been married for 16 yrs this year now, god what a life sentance i have lol
I do understand when you feel so relaxed with someone, it feels fantastic. Look forward to hearing more of how things are going hun)
Sharon xx
I met my husband through a dating agency and would highly recommend it i had a blast with it, we've been married for 16 yrs this year now, god what a life sentance i have
lol I do understand when you feel so relaxed with someone, it feels fantastic. Look forward to hearing more of how things are going hun
)Sharon xx
hopelesscase
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Oh well we have now been seeing each other for 5 weeks how time flies eh.
Prior to going out with keith i had been talking to another guy who i had arranged to meet me for a coffee and he unfortunatly had a car crash. Any way as promised at the time i met up with him yesturday. Keith knew about it and i had told him(micky) i was now seeing some one and it was purly as friends that i was meeting him.
Hes a nice looking guy and has a nice personality but all the time i was sat there i was thinking what the hell am i doing here. He was obviously thinking that maybe once id met him i would change my mind about just being friends as he asked my on a couple of occasions what i though of him and i kept finding myself talking about keith.lol
I went watching keith in panto tonight and my son liam whos 20 came with me, which i have got to admit when he asked keith to get him a ticket as well i was quite surprised . But we both really enjoyed it it was very funny.
Keith was saying that he was more nurvoise tonight than any other performance knowing thet we were there watching him.
A little old lady sat behind us asked if we knew someone in the show and i said "yes keith whos playing will scarlet "and she said oh are you his wife and this must be his son hansome like his dad isnt he. Liam and i just smiled at each other.
I told keith later that we had just been married off by the friers wife and that he now had another son. he just replied saying worst things could happen and laughed.
Anyway advice please after being single for 20 yrs and not doing the valentine thing what do i do. Im working so wont be going out and although i can do a meal it wont be a romantic just us 2 as i will have a child here. but do i buy him a presssi and card and if so what? HELP!!!
Prior to going out with keith i had been talking to another guy who i had arranged to meet me for a coffee and he unfortunatly had a car crash. Any way as promised at the time i met up with him yesturday. Keith knew about it and i had told him(micky) i was now seeing some one and it was purly as friends that i was meeting him.
Hes a nice looking guy and has a nice personality but all the time i was sat there i was thinking what the hell am i doing here. He was obviously thinking that maybe once id met him i would change my mind about just being friends as he asked my on a couple of occasions what i though of him and i kept finding myself talking about keith.lol
I went watching keith in panto tonight and my son liam whos 20 came with me, which i have got to admit when he asked keith to get him a ticket as well i was quite surprised . But we both really enjoyed it it was very funny.
Keith was saying that he was more nurvoise tonight than any other performance knowing thet we were there watching him.
A little old lady sat behind us asked if we knew someone in the show and i said "yes keith whos playing will scarlet "and she said oh are you his wife and this must be his son hansome like his dad isnt he. Liam and i just smiled at each other.
I told keith later that we had just been married off by the friers wife and that he now had another son. he just replied saying worst things could happen and laughed.
Anyway advice please after being single for 20 yrs and not doing the valentine thing what do i do. Im working so wont be going out and although i can do a meal it wont be a romantic just us 2 as i will have a child here. but do i buy him a presssi and card and if so what? HELP!!!
