thanks everybody, to be honest i was so glad of something to do, i think id have gone mad otherwise, specially after seeing her last night. she didnt know what she was having done till they actually did it, i think it all depended on what they decided on the day, no doubt she will txt us tomorrow and let us know, or she'll tell dotty tomorrow, and dotty will let us know. i know every time i rang i said its bevs sister can u tell me how she is, and when she actually got back to the ward, i said 'its dawn, bevs sister, can u tell her that all the family send their love' lol, someone was actually with her the last time i rang, she hadnt long been back on the ward, apparantly it was another of her sisters lol, but i dont know if it was lisa her friend, a real sister, or one of us lol. im just so glad shes come through it ok, what a day, im so glad its over, and im sure you all feel the same.