Fuffs Fun Frolics on WLS journey

[Fuffs]

love the new pic fuffs xxx

Thank you very much Caren Took 20 rejected pics to be half happy with one lol. Pampered myself by going to the hair salon on Friday

 

[Caren]

Thank you very much Caren Took 20 rejected pics to be half happy with one lol. Pampered myself by going to the hair salon on Friday

oh thats good, you needed a pamper xxx

 

[Fuffs]

oh thats good, you needed a pamper xxx

I didn't realise how much until she had hair fingers in my head, massaging shampoo in lol

Saw your sig earlier Caren!!! I missed a lot being away!!! So glad you are a hose head lol. That's a big step forward to getting your referral right?
I am starting to feel impatience kick in again. Don't want to, as it sea selfish. But would now love an idea of my date so I can plan around it. Need to make money, but scared to organise an event then get offered a date lol

 

[Caren]

I didn't realise how much until she had hair fingers in my head, massaging shampoo in lol

Saw your sig earlier Caren!!! I missed a lot being away!!! So glad you are a hose head lol. That's a big step forward to getting your referral right?
I am starting to feel impatience kick in again. Don't want to, as it sea selfish. But would now love an idea of my date so I can plan around it. Need to make money, but scared to organise an event then get offered a date lol

oh bless ya, its hard for you know u could get a date come up, hope u dont wait too long honey xxx

 

[Fuffs]

oh bless ya, its hard for you know u could get a date come up, hope u dont wait too long honey xxx

Just had a hospital letter and was shaking. But it's just a dietician appointment for 24th Booooo! Lol

 

[Caren]

Just had a hospital letter and was shaking. But it's just a dietician appointment for 24th Booooo! Lol

thats ok, you've got to have that lol another step up that ladder, you're nearly at the top now xxx

 

[Fuffs]

thats ok, you've got to have that lol another step up that ladder, you're nearly at the top now xxx

That's a brilliant way of looking at it I should be grateful to just have the ongoing support of the team. Thanks Caren

 

[Fuffs]

Fed up of this journey Can't keep the momentum up. Just spoke to bariatrics and surgery is fully booked until March. New appointments will not go out until end of Feb. I am now on Mr Kumars list. No one else is doing RNY there now So she said I will probably be June

I am devastated. I know I should be happy. But I can't lie. This journey has been a nightmare and I am not sure how much more I can take

 

[Minoots]

Oh Fuffs.. I know what you are feeling like and I just wish I could wave a magic wand !! If you are estimating June - mine will be after that...

I received my first consultants letter with Mr Kumar for Monday 23rd, so at least that is something. But we are never happy.. I first said all I wanted was that letter - now that it is here I am already wishing for the next step - even though i am not sure what it is!!

I would like to think that once I know it is still a Yes and a go-ahead I will try and be more patient..

But I know that you have been waiting and waiting for ages and really wish that yours would magically happen. !!

Will I see you at the group tomorrow? Hope so !!

 

[Fuffs]

I am really trying to be patient. Wanted to know as I am self employed and making event plans for my company. So I called and now I feel down

Dec 2009 I was referred. It's just been one mess up after another now having only one bypass surgeon has slowed things down.

Really hope your journey continues smoother than mine Heather

I plan to be there tomorrow

 

[pandora]

Know how you feel Sophie , when I spoke to the secretary she said tci march / April . Just spoke to Dawn & she's been told end Feb & she is 3 months ahead of me which would put me at end may , feel sick in my stomach :'(

 

[Fuffs]

Know how you feel Sophie , when I spoke to the secretary she said tci march / April . Just spoke to Dawn & she's been told end Feb & she is 3 months ahead of me which would put me at end may , feel sick in my stomach :'(

Hi Pandora

Thank you for your understanding. I know we should feel grateful. But I just want to keep crying. With the 18 week rule, I should have been end of April. But with going down to one surgeon and them being fully booked until the end of March, I don't stand a chance. Just feel my life is on hold and it's really made me down. So I really feel for you too Pandora x

 

[minxtress]

I keep hearing people saying oh the time will fly just concentrate in getting your mind prepared for surgery but to be honest I don't agree! Every day is dragging by waitin for the postman or telephone and it's awful and I have a year or so I was yet so I truly feel your pain Sophie.

 

[FuturePerfect]

Oh Sophs I don't know what to say to cheer you up. Shall we go for a drink after the meet tomorrow?

 

[Caren]

just imagine its a dental appointment and it will fly by good luck girls xxx

 

[Fuffs]

I keep hearing people saying oh the time will fly just concentrate in getting your mind prepared for surgery but to be honest I don't agree! Every day is dragging by waitin for the postman or telephone and it's awful and I have a year or so I was yet so I truly feel your pain Sophie.

That's exactly it. It has dragged! Just said to my partner, a part of me wishes I had never started it. It's been emotionally draining. Just cried at the end of the biggest loser on itv. I need to get my motivation back

I really feel for you Minx. I won't say anything annoying. Just that lol x

 

[Fuffs]

Oh Sophs I don't know what to say to cheer you up. Shall we go for a drink after the meet tomorrow?

Thanks Cathi. I may do a coffee lol. Anything more and I may have a serious Eastenders moment and grab a bottle of vodka lol

 

[Fuffs]

just imagine its a dental appointment and it will fly by good luck girls xxx

Thanks Caren xxx

I wish my imagination could penetrate my tearful morose mood lol.

I am grateful to have my funding. I really am. Just sick if my hospital if I am honest

 

[Caren]

Thanks Caren xxx

I wish my imagination could penetrate my tearful morose mood lol.

I am grateful to have my funding. I really am. Just sick if my hospital if I am honest

oh honey, i wish i could make u feel better a prayer for you when i go to bed me thinks, healing thoughts coming your way xxx

 

[Fuffs]

oh honey, i wish i could make u feel better a prayer for you when i go to bed me thinks, healing thoughts coming your way xxx

That's a beautiful gift and right up my street Caren. Thank you so much. And sorry for whinging.

Bright blessings to you my friend xxx