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Hi, I'm Kirsty, banded August 2014. My post op dairy
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kurstywursty
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Oh girls... I could just murder my husband.. He jus,t ordered a sweet and sour chicken ,and I had4 balls, some sauce and rice fk, fk, fk, fk!!
Of course that messed with my head, so now I ha had two twix, hubbies stash and a glass of port bought in for Xmas
I am sooooo mad at myself and at him!!!
I have been doing brilliantly for days and began to really have good weight loss
I will. Be punished for this on the scales tomorrow :-( :-( :-(
Of course that messed with my head, so now I ha had two twix, hubbies stash and a glass of port bought in for Xmas
I am sooooo mad at myself and at him!!!
I have been doing brilliantly for days and began to really have good weight loss
I will. Be punished for this on the scales tomorrow :-( :-( :-(
sharon2014
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Oh no!!!
Ok so you went off course but remember tomorrow is a new day and you will get back ontrack!! ESP with ur fill!!! Xx
kurstywursty
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Oh Sharon, thanks..feel rubbish right now :-(
Why do I do this. When. He asked if I wanted anything I said no. Was going to have a cup of tea and a yoghurt!!!! But when that glorious food came, it smelled do good
Lol
It's really not fair of him
But then again I need to take responsibility for my own actions and choices, I can't blame him he didn't stuff the food down my throat :-(
Why do I do this. When. He asked if I wanted anything I said no. Was going to have a cup of tea and a yoghurt!!!! But when that glorious food came, it smelled do good
Lol
It's really not fair of him
But then again I need to take responsibility for my own actions and choices, I can't blame him he didn't stuff the food down my throat :-(
sharon2014
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That's true Kirsty, but also a little consideration from family can help ESP during time when we struggle! Tell him nxt time needs to be when your out!!!
Hopefully after ur nxt fill you won't be able to eat that much!! Xx
Hopefully after ur nxt fill you won't be able to eat that much!! Xx
Kar8858
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There's two trails if thought...one is he still has to eat and it's not him that's wanting a new lifestyle so he can have a Chinese, and two, he is just trying to derail you as he wants you to fail.
I would say he just wanted Chinese.
Hopefully your fill will stop you being able to eat as much.
Don't be disheartened! Don't be annoyed at him.
Good luck with the fill today!
I would say he just wanted Chinese.
Hopefully your fill will stop you being able to eat as much.
Don't be disheartened! Don't be annoyed at him.
Good luck with the fill today!
kurstywursty
Active Member
Ha ha Karina. Lindsay and I have this conversation and he points out that he is not the one trying to diet. Though he needs top
I did tell him last night that I am with the wrong man to be going through this journey with as he does not make it easy for me. The house is full of temptation. His answer is do not go into the bread bin as I know that is where the goodies are. And I don't. But a Chinese last night was just too much temptation
This morning I feel really low. Even though I advise others not to get low over a blip. But I have my fill tomorrow and that's a fresh start and a day or two of liquids which should counteract last night
I did tell him last night that I am with the wrong man to be going through this journey with as he does not make it easy for me. The house is full of temptation. His answer is do not go into the bread bin as I know that is where the goodies are. And I don't. But a Chinese last night was just too much temptation
This morning I feel really low. Even though I advise others not to get low over a blip. But I have my fill tomorrow and that's a fresh start and a day or two of liquids which should counteract last night
SingerMo
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Don't be hard on yourself. I hope you enjoyed the microbinge (copyright BH) and you get back on track. I think I'm like you I can't get away with anything. And once I pop I can't stop. So far I've been lil miss perfect but I know it won't last forever and then I just have to keep climbing back on the wagon. Whatever the scales say just remember how far you've come and that there's a barrier you will break through really soon and you'll be on a high again. Better then drugs (or so I've heard) ;0)
kurstywursty
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Are Mo. Lovely to hear from you. You are such a positive lady. How gave you been?
SingerMo
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I'm great thank you Kirsty, I'm practically greeting each new day with a leap, I feel so much better within myself.
I didn't realise how low I had become. Completely hopeless and sad. Now I'm hopeful and trying to just enjoy what life's bringing.
Gosh I do sound excited lol.
Catching up with this Gang brings me cheer, and the Christmas season is my fave time of year. (Oh dear now I'm rhyming)
Even though there will be no food stuffing for me, I'm focusing on the singing and dancing and my next WL goal to see me through :0)
WeightlossDreamer
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Fantastic news on the loss hun but don't be so hard on yourself. It was one binge leave it behind and start again x you can't have no treats for the rest of eternity x x x
I really could throttle other peoples husbands for not helping! My friends hubby is the same - constantly buys crap and states that it's not him on a diet and she should operate restraint!!!!!
I'm really lucky as although my hubby is BMI normal, he's very health conscious and loves fish like I do. The problem I have is that I also have 'slim' kids. They have lunch boxes which although mostly healthy, I can't deprive them of a penguin or kitkat or maybe some mini cheddars! So I have to look at the 'choccy/ biccy / treat' box every day! I've started buying the 'Aldi' alternatives as I'm a brand snob and won't eat the Aldi ones!
I'm really lucky as although my hubby is BMI normal, he's very health conscious and loves fish like I do. The problem I have is that I also have 'slim' kids. They have lunch boxes which although mostly healthy, I can't deprive them of a penguin or kitkat or maybe some mini cheddars! So I have to look at the 'choccy/ biccy / treat' box every day! I've started buying the 'Aldi' alternatives as I'm a brand snob and won't eat the Aldi ones!
sharon2014
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Kirsty!
How did u get on?? Xx
How did u get on?? Xx
kurstywursty
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Sharon. I ended seeing the delectable Mr Galloway....be still my beating heart!!
The nurse couldn't get the needle into my port. The policy is that after two tries, they get a colleague to try then get the consultant. She went away for her colleague, but came back with Mr Galloway. Who got it in first time
I had another 1ml in. That is now 8.5ml in my 14 ml band
So had soup tonight, had a ufit earlier and feeling not bad restriction wise....so we will see
The nurse couldn't get the needle into my port. The policy is that after two tries, they get a colleague to try then get the consultant. She went away for her colleague, but came back with Mr Galloway. Who got it in first time
I had another 1ml in. That is now 8.5ml in my 14 ml band
So had soup tonight, had a ufit earlier and feeling not bad restriction wise....so we will see
alfiemoomin
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lol beating heart bit made me chuckle, men are wonderful pigs rant they? x love them then hate them then love them x
sharon2014
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Sharon. I ended seeing the delectable Mr Galloway....be still my beating heart!! The nurse couldn't get the needle into my port. The policy is that after two tries, they get a colleague to try then get the consultant. She went away for her colleague, but came back with Mr Galloway. Who got it in first time
Aw that's good you got to see him!!!
The consultants never have issues with it, they know their stuff!!
Glad you got another fill, that's just over 1/2 so hopefully you will get your restriction xxx
kurstywursty
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How are you feeling your restriction a couple of days after your fill?
Crystalrainbow
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Glad your fill went Well hunni fingers crossed its another mil closer to restriction Sounds like your hubby and mine are the same with their tempting stashes..... fortunately he wont buy a takeaway unless i'm willing to have one too, then its chicken and mushrooms or fish n chips which i factor into my day calorie wise.... but hey don't be hard on yourself you cant spend the rest of your life avoiding anything nice lol normal life does go on ..... Christmas the next big temptation on the horizon !! sending big hugs x x x enjoy your fluids LOL x x x x gl in that bid to find your sweet spot soon x x x
Sounds like your hubby and mine are the same with their tempting stashes..... fortunately he wont buy a takeaway unless i'm willing to have one too, then its chicken and mushrooms or fish n chips which i factor into my day calorie wise.... but hey don't be hard on yourself you cant spend the rest of your life avoiding anything nice lol normal life does go on ..... Christmas the next big temptation on the horizon !! sending big hugs x x x enjoy your fluids LOL x x x x gl in that bid to find your sweet spot soon x x x
kurstywursty
Active Member
Aw thanks Crystal xx
sharon2014
Active Member
pretty good so far, i had left over stirfry which i was really enjoying last night and wanted to eat more but the band wouldnt allow it, so stopped, i think if tried to eat more id been sick so seems to be doing the job!!!
only managed around 650 cals yesterday!
hopefully your at or near restriction with this fill!
