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Is it lunch time yet?

Embrace your new life you so deserve it xx
 
Crystalrainbow said:
hmmm sounds not like you sweetheart..... whats wrong? your normally so full of positivity x x xx x
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needed hubby home with me today but his mother decided that she having an appointment with gas board to come and assess her to see if she needed a new boiler was much more important as although she has 3 other sons two of whom live within 8 miles of her and 6 adult grandchildren within the same area she needed him to be with her and at 9 am so he set off at 7.30 to travel the 64 miles and still be safe. Said gas man turned up at 12.30 appointment that lasted 2 hours. I rang him to remind him to pick up my prescription as I needed them today and would be at chemist waiting. He turned up home at 6pm having forgotten them so went out again but came back with paper saying chemist says it must be a printing error cause they can't order them and also 1 of the items isn't even sent down. He came home at 6.30 and my doctors was shut. Then said you should have got someone else to get them if they were important because I was busy my mother rang me when you were in the hospital and she needed me to be there. Top that with the fact I feel useless and he goes on to say it was self inflicted for you her age isn't. Worried as it is about no bowel movement since last Friday and strict instructions to not go more than 3 days without and to use meds. Doctors knew I needed them yesterday twice got it wrong and now this. Think my day wasn't meant to go my way :'(
 
Sounds like the green eyed monster piping its head up. But you are the important one here, hope its get better :)
 
mouse57 said:
Sounds like the green eyed monster piping its head up. But you are the important one here, hope its get better :)
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Well to be honest he's always put her first. Don't get me wrong I certainly don't have a green eye I just thought that after 25 years he could have put me first and asked he to postpone it a few more days. Sorry if I came across sounding bad didn't mean to do so but I really needed him today. :(
 
You don't come across sounding bad at all Cupid. You have just had major surgery. I would be totally peed off

Get that prescription toot sweet.

I'm still having problems in the loo area. Tonight has been hellish...impacted...a lot of bleeding...don't let it get like that :)

Look after yourself xxxx
 
Cupid I think your sounding very reasonable to me. Keep your chin up not worth the extra stress that you don't need :)
 
awww hunni sending hugs x x xx of course don't forget in this your going to be having a touch of the post op blues, so everything will seem a lot worse than it really is................ having said that hubby should have know better than to rush off' to his mums just a day after you've gotten out of hospital ..... sometimes men just don't think the same way we do...... boot on the other foot you would have put off anything just to be by his side LOL typical man!!! plus they never are much good at multi tasking LOL mine couldn't have done the gas man and prescriptions full stop LOL (best be careful here not to sound like i'm man bashing LOL we got caught out last time :)) you didn't sound bad to me hunni, i would have been livid if mine had left me straight out of the op..... i was terrified to be alone. Just make sure you get those meds tomorrow, don't go suffering in the toilet department :) grrrr at the self inflicted bit!!! trust me he'll be the first to be mega chuffed, proud and the rest in a few weeks LOL Now mrs stop the feeling useless bit, you've had major surgery, you need to be gentle with yourself..... lay back and put you first for once, pop that beautiful smile back on your face, get a lovely nights sleep and all will seem sooooo much better come morning x x x x x xsending those rainbows, hugs and smiles x x x xx xx
 
Crystalrainbow said:
awww hunni sending hugs x x xx of course don't forget in this your going to be having a touch of the post op blues, so everything will seem a lot worse than it really is................ having said that hubby should have know better than to rush off' to his mums just a day after you've gotten out of hospital ..... sometimes men just don't think the same way we do...... boot on the other foot you would have put off anything just to be by his side LOL typical man!!! plus they never are much good at multi tasking LOL mine couldn't have done the gas man and prescriptions full stop LOL (best be careful here not to sound like i'm man bashing LOL we got caught out last time :)) you didn't sound bad to me hunni, i would have been livid if mine had left me straight out of the op..... i was terrified to be alone. Just make sure you get those meds tomorrow, don't go suffering in the toilet department :) grrrr at the self inflicted bit!!! trust me he'll be the first to be mega chuffed, proud and the rest in a few weeks LOL Now mrs stop the feeling useless bit, you've had major surgery, you need to be gentle with yourself..... lay back and put you first for once, pop that beautiful smile back on your face, get a lovely nights sleep and all will seem sooooo much better come morning x x x x x xsending those rainbows, hugs and smiles x x x xx xx
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Than you so much at least I'm no longer in tears...in fact this emotion swinging is really bad for me because now I seem to have a bite and tonight I'm stating quite clearly that if anyone wants to pull on my teeth be prepared to lose a few fingers as my gran would say. Battle with the docs in the morning because they can take a shot too. After all they got this info before I was allowed home so serves them right.......ooo this new me is sharp :eek: ah well night all xxx xxx
 
Bless you Cupid it's so strange the crying thing. I watched my good friend on ITV news about her sone who was the 121st soldier to die and I spend all day yesterday crying about it. I just wonder if any of the men get theses feelings. But you go bits fingers and as many s you want.
 
First I would have told my hubby in no uncertain terms what I thought if he did that and he knows it

The bowels is a hard one I still only go every 10 days and they have had me on everything for them so don't be surprised if it is a few more days yet but also everyone is different so it may work for you

Rest plenty of it you had major surgery don't even think about doing stuff yourself unless absolutely necessary sending hugs xx
 
Rang doctors this morning and lady on reception was very polite saying sorry no doctor available, I explained everything yet again about wrong and missing prescriptions so she said please hold....came back telling me the doctor says you don't need any further information and I will get him to ring you after surgery at 6pm. After a rather loud interaction on my behalf I slammed down the fone and it immediately rang back with doctor on the line who not only apologised but offered to bring the correct prescription to the desk to collect it straight away and his direct dial number for future use. Sorted one down one to go.
 
cupid1964 said:
Than you so much at least I'm no longer in tears...in fact this emotion swinging is really bad for me because now I seem to have a bite and tonight I'm stating quite clearly that if anyone wants to pull on my teeth be prepared to lose a few fingers as my gran would say. Battle with the docs in the morning because they can take a shot too. After all they got this info before I was allowed home so serves them right.......ooo this new me is sharp :eek: ah well night all xxx xxx
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cupid1964 said:
Rang doctors this morning and lady on reception was very polite saying sorry no doctor available, I explained everything yet again about wrong and missing prescriptions so she said please hold....came back telling me the doctor says you don't need any further information and I will get him to ring you after surgery at 6pm. After a rather loud interaction on my behalf I slammed down the fone and it immediately rang back with doctor on the line who not only apologised but offered to bring the correct prescription to the desk to collect it straight away and his direct dial number for future use. Sorted one down one to go.
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Love it hunni you sort them ******* out LOL its funny how we have to spiral down to a low point before we come out fighting........ good for you sometimes we need to stand our ground to get heard.... trust me this new stronger sharper person comes out more and more the further we go down this path,,..... be prepared LOL my friends don't recognise me these days ..... i no longer roll over and play nice, i bite when i need to and suddenly a new fund respect LOL

Ok so now its time to rest, recoup some energy :D youve had a busy day lol hope the meds are perfect when they arrive sweetness x x x xx huge hugs :eek::eek: who's left to sort??
 
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