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Is it lunch time yet?

Fantastic loss for week one doing dab just rest n sip x
 
WOOHOOOOOOOOOO flags out trumpets blowing and if i had a kitchen table i'd be dancing round it LOL WTG hunni that is blooming fantastic and exactly how its done yay wtg !!!!
I love the fact your keeping your diary here... its become like a comfy pair of slippers here :) and your right all the wonderful words and support given would vanish....... this way you always have it right to hand to go back and re read time and time again :)
I trust dear friend that your feet are still up..... not off dancing eh?? not yet anyway :) take cover the stormy winds have begun so we're all cosy indoors now with all the candles alight .... the day has been spent clearing the debris of last night lol the spare room looks like a boot sale, loads of stuff which needs packing away for next year :) but its lovely to get back to normality.

Have a wonderful evening strictly and x factor with a bit of knitting thrown in is perfect :) sending huge hugs hunni x x x x x x mawhhhhhhh.............. im still dancing !!!!
 
In bed with an early night tonight as I'm feeling rather yuk but ok if you know what I mean.
Thanks everyone it means a lot I was most shocked that it was so much as I expected around a pound or two at most.

Crystal the wind and rain have hit with a vengeance this evening for sure defo sounds like autumn to say the least Hun. Enjoy your weekend as all that dancing will make you tired ? sleep for me now xxx xxx
 
Sweet dreams sweetheart this winds should pass by thu the night, its already calming a bit here :) hope your feeling brighter tomorrow x x x x x x huge hugs
 
You poor thing, you've really been through the mill. Glad to see you're coming out the other side and doing so well.
 
So I got my changing rooms head on today my kids would say..

New me ...new living room.
Planned fire surround and bought all. Material to make 2 solid wood bookcases that in the shops are priced a total of £900 and hoping ( with some confidence) that my boy can make them for me saving £750. Therefore enough money to redecorate living room and stairs. That is if ever I choose my final colour scheme. ;)

This is me.... my life, getting kids all they need and then hubby all he wishes for (I draw the line at an Au Pair) and being comfortable in my own home.
I don't ask for riches or mad evenings out as I don't drink except I did a few glasses whilst we were on hols....nor do I smoke do bags. or shoes not even clothes and what keeps me happy and always with satisfied results so my Christmas starts now......well when I feel a bit fitter lol! And much more window shopping to come whilst losing weight at the same time :) :) :)
 
Love the thinking. Your sounding like in your mind your there but not quite in the body yet which is how it's meant to be. It's great window shopping from the living room I love it. :)
 
cupid1964 said:
So I got my changing rooms head on today my kids would say..

New me ...new living room.
Planned fire surround and bought all. Material to make 2 solid wood bookcases that in the shops are priced a total of £900 and hoping ( with some confidence) that my boy can make them for me saving £750. Therefore enough money to redecorate living room and stairs. That is if ever I choose my final colour scheme. ;)

This is me.... my life, getting kids all they need and then hubby all he wishes for (I draw the line at an Au Pair) and being comfortable in my own home.
I don't ask for riches or mad evenings out as I don't drink except I did a few glasses whilst we were on hols....nor do I smoke do bags. or shoes not even clothes and what keeps me happy and always with satisfied results so my Christmas starts now......well when I feel a bit fitter lol! And much more window shopping to come whilst losing weight at the same time :) :) :)
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Deffo liking the sound of that hunni .............. new you new everything LOL

cupid1964 said:
Should have kept to window shopping at home today went to watch my youngest 2 ice skating and forgot to drink most of the day....feeling rather ill silly me :(
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ahhh hate days out always forget to drink enough ......... i laugh but thinks one of those beer hats would help LOL hope you had a lovely time tho hun :D get back to sipping and get better real quick x x x xx huge hugs
 
Crystalrainbow said:
Deffo liking the sound of that hunni .............. new you new everything LOL ahhh hate days out always forget to drink enough ......... i laugh but thinks one of those beer hats would help LOL hope you had a lovely time tho hun :D get back to sipping and get better real quick x x x xx huge hugs
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I managed to settle down after it gave me such a jolt and fell asleep but now I'm awake again lol. I had a very satisfying day watching them bond again as they were so very close growing up but this last year has hardly seen them together so I loved it as much as they. :)

I also got to buy pompom wool from hobby craft and set my mind to cushion covers for my new look room but then my friend became a grandma for the first time today so I think a beautiful cover for her as she is so tiny at 4lb 10. I did make her a dress and bolero but it's going to be jan before she can wear it.

Today is a trip to the hairdressers with my daughter as she has not only decided to have it cut but is sending 18inch of it to the princess foundation who tailor make wigs for little girls having had chemotherapy as some of the can cost up to £2000 to make. It had to be clean wrapped and weighed before postage. This will then leave her hair past shoulder length by around 5 inch more. I know that I will cry as her hair is beautiful and extremely thick as well as long but I am so proud of her doing this it's so just her.

Note to self take a drink lol. :) xxx xxx
 
What a lovely thing for your daughter to do Cupid.
 
cupid1964 said:
I managed to settle down after it gave me such a jolt and fell asleep but now I'm awake again lol. I had a very satisfying day watching them bond again as they were so very close growing up but this last year has hardly seen them together so I loved it as much as they. :)

I also got to buy pompom wool from hobby craft and set my mind to cushion covers for my new look room but then my friend became a grandma for the first time today so I think a beautiful cover for her as she is so tiny at 4lb 10. I did make her a dress and bolero but it's going to be jan before she can wear it.

Today is a trip to the hairdressers with my daughter as she has not only decided to have it cut but is sending 18inch of it to the princess foundation who tailor make wigs for little girls having had chemotherapy as some of the can cost up to £2000 to make. It had to be clean wrapped and weighed before postage. This will then leave her hair past shoulder length by around 5 inch more. I know that I will cry as her hair is beautiful and extremely thick as well as long but I am so proud of her doing this it's so just her.

Note to self take a drink lol. :) xxx xxx
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Firstly a huge wow at your daughter :) shes a chip of the old block sweetheart, you must be so proud, she has your head on her shoulders willing to help those less fortunate than her.........what a beautiful wonderful trait :D and such a fantastic cause too.............. wow imagine how many she could contribute to over the course of a life time ......... i have a thick mop and it grows pretty quick!!!
\So pleased you enjoyed your girlie day and a bonding one too brings a smile to ones face and warms the heart :)
Hmm pompom wool lol thats funny i dug out my pompom scarf yesterday to wear :cool: loving the sound of the cushion covers, i should imagine they will be fab..........what colour are you going for?? of course baby blanket comes first lol but tis a long winter plenty of nights in front of the fire for knitting.

OOoh shooting off for a quick walk....catch up laters x x x x x x
 
Thanks Crystal and I am definitely proud of her and our morning was lovely to say the very least. Cut wrapped and packed ready for the post :)
So much for my cushion cover 2 blankets and a scarf on order now but I'm best pleased as they will be done with love.

Now serious question I understand the head hunger bit but my brain seems to be telling me that I haven't had this done the only time that I can truly tell seems to be when I'm in pain. Today I had soup so nothing new there but I wanted to try bread and my brain says ok but omg did I suffer for that so certainly won't try again and I only ate a very small size like a crouton. I also forgot to take my vitamins ect too....think that was trying to get ready this morning.

Hubby still seems to be in a world of his own too because I had to make him clean the house with me...I know that he works but his attitude to helping me out still stings the same, " just leave it " he says....but to me 1 days dirt is far too much stress when your are married to a builder/hoarder/mummy's boy, and I'm not ocd by a very long chalk but I can't rest till its done. I even contemplated ringing the surgeon to undo all he's done because he is still being selfish saying I chose to have this done so why should he do the work. My biggest worry is why do this now he was so supportive before. :(

Bonfire night is a tradition with us plenty of food friends and laughter but thought a quiet one this year till hubby informs me 6 to come for food with potatoes to do and curry to make ect ect and he doesn't cook and my kids are at work tomorrow....these friends know I had surgery but not where or why ( his friends not ours). I should be resting I know but this is really not possible for me right now and my youngest will help if I let him but not in my heart can I allow him to do so when his dad will just allow him to do it all whilst he does whatever it is he finds to do instead. I hate this bad feeling but don't know how to put it right.

I actually shocked our oldest friend today with shouting at him (hubby) and he told me that poor hubby has had a rough time because I can't cook his meals.....there's a hole in my tongue now just for peace sake. Will we ever ride this out? Also I started to sound like someone I'm not I hate this bad feeling so very much rant over :(
 
Oh dear Cupid, I think I would have been shouting at him well before now. I think it's going to be difficult for you and the only thing I think you can do is to accept any help thats offered from your children and just try to keep your cool. But I would be super cool with your other half words fail me as to why he would treat you this way, yes you have done this for you firstly I hope but you have also done it to give you both a better quality of life and he needs to remember what the advantages will be. Keep your cool, keep your chin up and keep smiling. :) will be thinking of you today.
 
Mines never been onboard really and I find I snap and shout at him a lot all I can suggest is maybe sit down together and both get your feelings out there and try work through them hope it all works out for you hunni x
 
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