Good for you hunni .... sometimes we need to play them at their own games...... It makes me mad, a friend of mine was in same sort of situation.... She used to hit out he left eventually, she got the house the kids ..... he was left living with his mother struggling on peanuts while she demanded money left right and centre. She was on benefits and somehow got her new fella moved in (to his old home) eventually the same begun to happen, the oldest daughter left to go live with her dad (only 10 years old) and still she demanded....took years to fight .... at one point his mother had to talk him off the cliff top where he just wanted to end the pain..... so you be strong for him sweetheart, sometimes they dont know how to, without inadvertently hurting the kids.... ....... i say good for you .... this journey sure has funny ways about it......... trust me you will learn so much about yourself along the way
x x x x lol but god dam it feels good