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Good for you hunni .... sometimes we need to play them at their own games...... It makes me mad, a friend of mine was in same sort of situation.... She used to hit out he left eventually, she got the house the kids ..... he was left living with his mother struggling on peanuts while she demanded money left right and centre. She was on benefits and somehow got her new fella moved in (to his old home) eventually the same begun to happen, the oldest daughter left to go live with her dad (only 10 years old) and still she demanded....took years to fight .... at one point his mother had to talk him off the cliff top where he just wanted to end the pain..... so you be strong for him sweetheart, sometimes they dont know how to, without inadvertently hurting the kids.... ....... i say good for you .... this journey sure has funny ways about it......... trust me you will learn so much about yourself along the way :) x x x x lol but god dam it feels good :)
so sad that there are people so greedy and money motivated. Since the week my son left she has sent my granddaughter to a relative of her mothers exes sister-in-law Friday through till Monday and though her and my son got back together for a few wks meaning my grandson was conceived he hasn't been able to see his daughter at weekend because of it. Now she has decided to find anyone possible to have him shipped off too. When did motherhood become a part time job? First time I ever left mine for my own pleasure was in September this year for our first holiday alone and my youngest just turned 20 a month later lol! Xxx
 
Hmmm yes ... i know its certainly different to how it used to be..... i never was lucky enough to have kids, but know for sure i would have been the old fashioned kind of mum... unlike so many of these younger mums..... my sisters the same, ships the kids off when she fancy's a break lol times do change eh .... these days its all me me me !!!! hang in there hunni ... hope she has a change of heart one day. x x x x x x just know your in the right and tide will turn one dayx x x x
 
Cupid horrified reading this. Why do some folks need such drama and conflict in life. Those poor kids they must miss their dad. What a horrible dispicable woman
 
Got to see my grandson with his daddy today...Jacob is 17months old and full of beans. He walked into the house holding daddy's hand and that was just the best sight ever. My son got down on his knees to show him the trainers that he had been to town and bought. When he opened the box and said to Jacob who are these for? Bless him his little face lit up massive smile and said me daddy me Best christmas pressy my son could have ever asked for bless him. Xxx
 
Grandchildren are such a blessing,they are so precious. glad you had a good after all the trouble :)
 
Pleased your son got to see his son, and you your grandson.
With us having Levi, we have to work with social services which after 7 years have become friends, they would have a field day with your sons ex.

Well done on the weight loss, have a lovely weekend.xx
 
Pleased your son got to see his son, and you your grandson. With us having Levi, we have to work with social services which after 7 years have become friends, they would have a field day with your sons ex. Well done on the weight loss, have a lovely weekend.xx
thanks at least a positive came of it my grandson slept at daddy's flat last night and it seems she has agreed that he can do so every Friday....only his daughter to visit and its a hat trick. Being older I think she finds it harder though as she gets upset when it's time to say goodbye to him. Progress is a massive thing to him so will see what the future brings for today he's happy so I'm happy. Enjoy your weekend hun xx
 
WHOP WHOP WHOP WHOP fantastic loss sweetness you must be dead chuffed and fantastic about your Son all falling into place nicely..... :) huge hugs feet up by fire Harry potter on tv x x x xx x
 
Pretty tired today but I got to town ok after slip sliding all over and managed to keep my butt off the floor for a change. Town was heaving so my trip was short lived as I still find crowds difficult to cope with.

Odd the house was so quiet afterwards as daughter at work, my youngest at the farm for the weekend and hubby on nights with his fill in job and a part of me hopes that he likes it enough to stay put through the winter as he now has arthritis and it's getting far too cold to be building walls ect. It pays the bills if nothing else lol.

Stopped planning my meals now as they're a waste of time and the battle still a wild one so just get when I'm hungry now and deal with it that way. I'm happy enough with that for now and smiling much more. :)

Hope everyone is enjoying the weekend and staying warm. Xx
 
I've been out to my small shopping centre, I've used only one stick today and used my hubby for the extra support. My legs are now killing me but I did feel better at the time. I can't keep away from boot weighing machine and I'm glad to say it reads the same as mine at home, which dies mean I have lost 3 stone since September when I started my pre op diet. I've done all my present buying I don't need anything else just got to start wrapping and fresh food for the day. I'm going to have my dinner in a bit and I might try to stay out of my bed and sit up with hubby because I'm on my bed every night at 9. This is the woman who survived on a few hours sleep going to bed at 2-3 every night. Tomorrow im going to try my new batch of easiyo yogurt that i made last night will let you all know if it was ok. Not watching Xfactor not my thing but what ever your watching enjoy your night.
 
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I've been out to my small shopping centre, I've used only one stick today and used my hubby for the extra support. My legs are now killing me but I did feel better at the time. I can't keep away from boot weighing machine and I'm glad to say it reads the same as mine at home, which dies mean I have lost 3 stone since September when I started my pre op diet. I've done all my present buying I don't need anything else just got to start wrapping and fresh food for the day. I'm going to have my dinner in a bit and I might try to stay out of my bed and sit up with hubby because I'm on my bed every night at 9. This is the woman who survived on a few hours sleep going to bed at 2-3 every night. Tomorrow im going to try my new batch of easiyo yogurt that i made last night will let you all know if it was ok. Not watching Xfactor not my thing but what ever your watching enjoy your night.
how odd I use boots and ours too is the same at home. Enjoy your yoghurt tomorrow hun and well done with the 3st hun that's fantastic x
 
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