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My Bypass story .... I'm getting married !!!!
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Nic318
Post-op Gastric Bypass
Aaah thanks Livvy, still a long way to go yet and looking forward to feeling more confident, still hate the way I look at the mo!
Hi hun
it sure did, it was good, back to it yesterday though but at least new carpets are now down.
Nic xx
Nic318
Post-op Gastric Bypass
Hi Ollie
I'm not so bad been on a bit of a downer again and being very over sensitive in the last few days. Doesn't help when you hear about people talking about you behind your back (from here!) but not to worry! I've not been around much because I've been busy decorating and having a big sort out at home. Been a tough few weeks but I'm away in London this weekend with my lovely Mum and then I have my holiday on 15th November to look forward to. Shame that its on the same day as the Manchester meet would of loved to of met you so sorry about that hun.
How's things with you? xx
Olsbols
Sliced and diced!!!
Olsbols
Sliced and diced!!!
Well, you make sure you enjoy your time away with your mum
And then have a fab time on hols, baba... relax, forget about the f**kwits who have nothing better to do than b*tch, and kick back for some well deserved R and R
As for the meet up, I can't make it in Nov, so don't worry... you will have to come down with Shel for the Southern meet next year!!!
Take care, and you know where I am if you want a chat...
x
shelbell
Proudly maintaining
What?!!!
Who?!!! Send them in my direction, baba...
*hugs*
x
Well alledgedly me. Knowing how the whispers on this board work everyone has already been told what a complete b*tch I am being so its probably not news to anyone.
I would have hoped that most people on here know me well enough to know that I don't b*tch or talk behind peoples backs but it seems there are a few who are just determined to think badly of me and take offense at nothing.
You know what, I've said it before on here, all of us have no doubt been bullied and excluded and suffered socially because of our weight problems, and I think it's truly pathetic that we carry on doing it amongst ourselves.
Olsbols
Sliced and diced!!!
To be honest, Shel, I think we all have so many other things going on in our lives that this place is somewhere we would like to think we can come to and forget about the sh*t going on around us.
It's so easy to misunderstand or misread posts and comments - I know that I have done it before, and no doubt I will do it in the future. I'm guilty of taking things to heart just as much as the next person...
I think it would be better just to let it all go... whatever has been said, whatever has been misunderstood or taken the wrong way, I doubt it is worth falling out over... do you agree?
I hate bad feeling between people... heck, I've clashed with members before (remember my thread a week before my op?!!! ) but I like to think I have let it go and moved on.
Feel free to tell me to butt out... but I truly believe that it's not worth fighting over, especially on a public forum... and especially on a member's thread
I also think, as I have said at the beginning of this post, that a lot of us have major issues going on in our lives and it's better to just take a step back, forgive and forget...
Right... I'm running off before I get a :whoopass: for sticking my nose in where it shouldn't be! I just saw that you had quoted me and I wanted to try and diffuse the situation... again, I really don't like to see peeps fighting x
It's so easy to misunderstand or misread posts and comments - I know that I have done it before, and no doubt I will do it in the future. I'm guilty of taking things to heart just as much as the next person...
I think it would be better just to let it all go... whatever has been said, whatever has been misunderstood or taken the wrong way, I doubt it is worth falling out over... do you agree?
I hate bad feeling between people... heck, I've clashed with members before (remember my thread a week before my op?!!!
) but I like to think I have let it go and moved on.Feel free to tell me to butt out... but I truly believe that it's not worth fighting over, especially on a public forum... and especially on a member's thread
I also think, as I have said at the beginning of this post, that a lot of us have major issues going on in our lives and it's better to just take a step back, forgive and forget...
Right... I'm running off before I get a :whoopass: for sticking my nose in where it shouldn't be! I just saw that you had quoted me and I wanted to try and diffuse the situation... again, I really don't like to see peeps fighting x
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Nic318
Post-op Gastric Bypass
In answer to this as you publicly put in on MY thread Shell, no idea why you have said that everybody has been told what a b**ch you as nothing in our private messages mentioned anything about that and as for the people thinking bad of you, you have admitted to talking about me unfavourably to another member (which nobody can see as you did this on a private message also) then you go on about bullying!! Easy to act the hard done to person here when people can't see what you have said/put in private messages. Looks like you were looking for the sympathy vote to me! I asked you nicely to leave it (on a private message but you chose to ignore this and post the above)!
To be honest, Shel, I think we all have so many other things going on in our lives that this place is somewhere we would like to think we can come to and forget about the sh*t going on around us.
It's so easy to misunderstand or misread posts and comments - I know that I have done it before, and no doubt I will do it in the future. I'm guilty of taking things to heart just as much as the next person...
I think it would be better just to let it all go... whatever has been said, whatever has been misunderstood or taken the wrong way, I doubt it is worth falling out over... do you agree?
I hate bad feeling between people... heck, I've clashed with members before (remember my thread a week before my op?!!!
Feel free to tell me to butt out... but I truly believe that it's not worth fighting over, especially on a public forum... and especially on a member's thread
I also think, as I have said at the beginning of this post, that a lot of us have major issues going on in our lives and it's better to just take a step back, forgive and forget...
Right... I'm running off before I get a :whoopass: for sticking my nose in where it shouldn't be! I just saw that you had quoted me and I wanted to try and diffuse the situation... again, I really don't like to see peeps fighting x
Thanks Ols, totally agree about it should of been left as you put above but Shel decided to post it publicly on MY thread (as you can see I've posted nothing on hers)! Anyway this isn't the first time that this has happened on here so I'm coming off Minis now but you know where to contact me.
Hope your ok hun! xx
Hey mate
I'm good ta had a great weekend with Mum and bought loads of new stuff that actually fit me rather than falling off me. As for letting it go, I had but ......
anyway as I said I'm not coming on here anymore it's just not worth it!
You can get me on MSN or facebook hun.
mandy-1975
Regular Member
Nic come back I need you!!!!!!!!!!!xxx
Nic318
Post-op Gastric Bypass
Don't worry hun I will still be on MSN and you have my number etc.
Those who want to keep in touch can get me by other means and if they haven't got my details you can give them my email addy.
xxxx
mandy-1975
Regular Member
I totally understand and I totally agree............. it is disgraceful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nic318
Post-op Gastric Bypass
Time for a quick update, been to hospital today for 2nd post-op appointment and I have now lost a total of 5 stone 3lb since 1st July so pretty happy with that so far.
Thanks Mandy for sending me your old holiday clothes, they will be going with me next Saturday and it was great to see you on Saturday, can't wait to see you again in a couple of weeks hun xxxx
Thanks Mandy for sending me your old holiday clothes, they will be going with me next Saturday and it was great to see you on Saturday, can't wait to see you again in a couple of weeks hun xxxx
Hi Nic well done on you fab weight loss. sorry if you feel let down by people on here i just wanted to let you know that you have been a real support to me through some of my threads and i appreciate that. keep up all you hard work you are doing great. take care xx
Cowgirl
Licks the lid of life!
Nicki Noooo
Don't go Sweetheart!
Your help and advise has got me through so of the most questionable parts of my journey so far. You're stronger than that, don't worry what anyone is saying, if they can't start a thread on it and say it public then thats their downfall!
Stay on here baby, youre a real inspiration!
5STONES 3LB IN 4 MONTHS!
woooooooooooop wooooooooooooooooooop!!!!!!!!!!
You go girl!
Love ya, kisses and big hugs!xxxx
Gina
Don't go Sweetheart!
Your help and advise has got me through so of the most questionable parts of my journey so far. You're stronger than that, don't worry what anyone is saying, if they can't start a thread on it and say it public then thats their downfall!
Stay on here baby, youre a real inspiration!
5STONES 3LB IN 4 MONTHS!
woooooooooooop wooooooooooooooooooop!!!!!!!!!!
You go girl!
Love ya, kisses and big hugs!xxxx
Gina
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