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My Gastric Bypass Journey -Onwards and Upwards-Well this is a start

Oh I do understand hun, both about the parent situation, and also how miserable it must be not to be able to keep food down. Just wish i had a magic wand i could wave for you like your fairy godmother to make everything better but in the meantime a vitual hug will have to do xx
 
hanging on tight xx
 
Wish I could say something to make you feel better... :(

Sending you a huge hug :hug99:

x
 
Hi Mandy just read you wonderful thread from start to finish. Well done hun on your fantastic weight loss and dont be disheartened with your weight sticking. Had three weeks where mine didnt budge then all of a sudden off came eleven pounds in two weeks. I have put it down to my monthlys starting to come nigh on weekly! dont know if you are having same type of problems but it could be down to that.
 
Hi Guys....

Thanks Caroline, I haven't had a monthly for just over a year now, last time was when i miscarried!!!!. but i do get the symptons of monthlys!!!!!!!!

Thank you everyone for caring......never had it before
 
We do care Mandy - we are all here to support each other in times of stress, crisis, happiness, whatever. Hope you are a little happier today hun - look on the bright side, it can only be better than yesterday xx
 
Thanks Ali

I am trying to be positive today, although I am extremely shattered!!!! and I have a pile of Electricty reports to sort out...(have to clear someone elses mess up) just can't find the enthusiasim to start them!!!!!!!!!

As my DH pointed out last night, I am a worrier but I can't help it, As i tried to explain to him but not sure he understood me, is that my mother was never there to support me threw out my life and I feel she has NO RIGHT to know anything about me........ it annoys me so much that she knows I have had this op....... I feel violated if that makes sense..... thing is she wont be caring about me, she will turn it into poor old her, which is even more frustrating!!!!!!!!

Then my darling little treasure knows how to make me feel bad......... have a nightmare with childcare and him at moment, that makes me feel bad......

Didnt sleep last night, My mother and him kept invading my dreams!!!!!!!!!
 
Mandy, I think your mum should meet my Dad - they sound like a match made in heaven!!
 
Mandy - sorry you're having such a tough time of it.

It's true what they say - you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family !!!

With all the friends you have around supporting you I'm sure you will get come through the other side of this and be a stronger person for it.

sending you lots and lots and lots of hugs :hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99:
 
Hi Mandy, I hope you dont mind but i just wanted to say i have loved reading your weightloss journey and see how much weight you have lost through the good and bad times. Im not going the surgery route, i am trying with weight watchers again lol, but you are a true inspiration. Emma x
 
staypositive said:
Mandy - sorry you're having such a tough time of it.

It's true what they say - you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family !!!

With all the friends you have around supporting you I'm sure you will get come through the other side of this and be a stronger person for it.

sending you lots and lots and lots of hugs :hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99::hug99:
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Thank you Caroline........ means alot to me at this moment in time!:)
 
emma237 said:
Hi Mandy, I hope you dont mind but i just wanted to say i have loved reading your weightloss journey and see how much weight you have lost through the good and bad times. Im not going the surgery route, i am trying with weight watchers again lol, but you are a true inspiration. Emma x
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Hi Emma........

Thank you so much, don't actually see myself as an inspiration!!!!!!!! good luck with your weightloss........ keep in touchxx
 
Dont knock yourself lady!! you are an inspiration, you tell it like it is and thats such a honerable trait in a person. And next time someone comes into your dream and you dont want them there tell them to Flip off or words to that effect!! Can I ask as well have you heard anything from Georgina not heard from her in a few weeks. xx
 
hi mandy, i had actually bookmarked your diary just so i could keep reading it over a couple days and ...wow! the journey you've gone through is truly incredible and you should be so very proud of yourself! it must be frustrating for you not having support from your family and i can't imagine what thats like, but just reading on here there are so many people that love you, and it sounds like you have a wonderful family! so i know its easy for me to say, but this operation is a new start in life for you, so maybe embrace that and concentrate on what matters e.g. family, friends and everything and try not to let your horrible parents get to you! it seems to of made you a stronger person, and they don't know what a wonderful daughter they have!

you truly are an inspiration to me and so many other people im sure, so i wanted to say a big thank you! and never give up hun! you're a true star xx
 
Hey honey

Sorry not been around much but I'm always here for you xxxx
 
Hope you're feeling a bit better today, Mandy... I should be up and about in the car in the next 10 days or so... maybe we could meet up for a coffee and share a Rich Tea?!!! :D

Take care

x
 
jackietrew said:
hi mandy, i had actually bookmarked your diary just so i could keep reading it over a couple days and ...wow! the journey you've gone through is truly incredible and you should be so very proud of yourself! it must be frustrating for you not having support from your family and i can't imagine what thats like, but just reading on here there are so many people that love you, and it sounds like you have a wonderful family! so i know its easy for me to say, but this operation is a new start in life for you, so maybe embrace that and concentrate on what matters e.g. family, friends and everything and try not to let your horrible parents get to you! it seems to of made you a stronger person, and they don't know what a wonderful daughter they have!

you truly are an inspiration to me and so many other people im sure, so i wanted to say a big thank you! and never give up hun! you're a true star xx
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Hi Jackie

Thank you so much........ it is very true what you say and i so do try and concentrate on what I have and how far I have come, but it is like you say very hard..... especially when you crave a mothers love and acceptance........

Everyone says I am strong and an inspiration but i can never see that, not even sure how i could be an inspiration...... if anyone has read the dave pelzer books or richard pelzer books, or any books on the same lines I am very much like all of them, you learn to survive..... you learn to be two people, the abused and the surviour.......
The hardest thing is that self destruction button, i keep pressing it.......... but i am learning to cope with it......

I made another big step yesterday so that is good, I got back in touch with my counselling group we had to have a break, which i have for 6 months but i know i need to go back and i have called them, so it is a step in right direction!!!!!!!

Thank you for your support........ means alot
 
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