Why?Activity
Having a gastric band means that you will need to accept and work with change of different types:
Physical change, Emotional change, Relationship change, Social change & Behavioural change.
Step one - Acceptance:
Accept that change is not just about reduced size
Accept behavioural change includes food & eating behaviours.
Accept that change is hard work and ongoing
Step two - Recognise:
That change may be uncomfortable
That for many of us it is more comfortable to remain as we are, exerting no effort.
Changing size and shape is not always comfortable and may trigger difficult memories
At the start of every day, make yourself some promises, set yourself some goals:
I'm GOING TO change because.........
I AM worth it because.........
I WILL change to achieve.........
TODAY I am going to.........
TODAY when I achieve......... I will praise myself
I ACCEPT I may lapse & that's OK - I will use it as an opportunity to learn more about myself
I have an app from bioring about my band and I found this on it today ... To do everyday
I am going to change because ... It's healthier and I want to be around for my children for longer
I am worth it because ... I am
I will change to achieve .... Improved help and maybe an improved relationship (I live in hope that at 41 my love life is not over)!
Today I am going to ..... Get showered, dressed and pop into town to tick some stuff off my list (I think maybe this is supposed to be about food but hey this works for me).
Today when I achieve ... The above... I will praise myself
I accept I may lapse & that's ok, I will use it to learn more about myself
Just thought I'd share