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hopelesscase
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Unfortunatly weve not seen each other this week although we have txt and spoken a couple of times but his dad sadly died on thursday morning.
Hes really concerned for his mum and as well as looking after her and dealing with his own greif he has his 2 children who have also lost their grandad....
I personally think grieving is very personal and have text him to say you know where i am feel free just to call..but you need some time and space at the mo.
He txt me back to say thanks for being so understanding and i will be in touch!!!
Hes really concerned for his mum and as well as looking after her and dealing with his own greif he has his 2 children who have also lost their grandad....
I personally think grieving is very personal and have text him to say you know where i am feel free just to call..but you need some time and space at the mo.
He txt me back to say thanks for being so understanding and i will be in touch!!!
phatgirl
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Yeah, what were you worried about after all, lol. It is a tough thing grief and it can take alot of time and impact the strangest things so just tread softly and you should be fine. But I don't have to tell you, you have it all figured out. Way to go and wishing you well with your new flame.
Nic
Nic
hopelesscase
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oh well we have continued to text each other occasionlly but i was gutted to recieve a text on sunday to say he wont be able to attend the dinner as hes going to go back to canada with his brother for a couple of weeks. His brother flew out this eve and he has said he will call and see me tomorrow before he goes!!!!
He will be there for 2 weeks home for 10 days and then away with his mates for 2 weeks.....
but i have a gut feeling that after all the stress and strain of the past few weeks for him if he does call tomorrow it may be the last time i see him... i may be wrong but just a feeling i have.
will let you know when i do!!!
He will be there for 2 weeks home for 10 days and then away with his mates for 2 weeks.....
but i have a gut feeling that after all the stress and strain of the past few weeks for him if he does call tomorrow it may be the last time i see him... i may be wrong but just a feeling i have.
will let you know when i do!!!
hopelesscase
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See even with reduced gut the instinct is still the same!!!
he text me in the morning to say he would be here around tea time and that was it he must of got lost!!!!!!!!! as i didnt see or here from him.
I just text him before he got on his flight to say that
"gut instinct had told me that i wouldnt see you again and that if ive got it wrong you know where i am. Timeing was unfortunate that we hadnt got to know each other better but i hope you have a great time in canada and good luck with yr eye surgery when you get back. Take care!!
one thing this has taught me is i was right not to put all my eggs in one basket. The difference between going out and meeting someone face to face and having that instant click is very diffrent.
But its not put me off all good experiance for when mr right comes along!!!
he text me in the morning to say he would be here around tea time and that was it he must of got lost!!!!!!!!! as i didnt see or here from him.
I just text him before he got on his flight to say that
"gut instinct had told me that i wouldnt see you again and that if ive got it wrong you know where i am. Timeing was unfortunate that we hadnt got to know each other better but i hope you have a great time in canada and good luck with yr eye surgery when you get back. Take care!!
one thing this has taught me is i was right not to put all my eggs in one basket. The difference between going out and meeting someone face to face and having that instant click is very diffrent.
But its not put me off all good experiance for when mr right comes along!!!
phatgirl
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Pftt, that was surely a case of VERY BAD timing! Ahh, well it just shows how you can trust yourself. NEXT!!!
So who is on the menu now, any good prospects? Does this mean you and I are heading for a night out when you have a night off, I can be your wingman since I am married and a loud yank!
xx
So who is on the menu now, any good prospects? Does this mean you and I are heading for a night out when you have a night off, I can be your wingman since I am married and a loud yank!
xx
hopelesscase
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Oh yes thats for sure.... end of the month NEXT!!!!!!
lol
lol
hopelesscase
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I have just had the most amaising evening. It was our annual dinner at the rugby club and i wasnt looking forward to going as being single i always seem to end up sat next to the guy who is single for a reason!!!! if you know what i mean
Anyway i had bought the most amaising Nichole Farri (size 6 petite) black chiffon dress with sequined design on the front and a little black chiffon belero style jacket to go with it!!!(thanks nic for yr patients shopping with me) and i felt a million dollars...
Whilst getting ready i had an email from a guy i had met for coffee a couple of months ago who was nice but there was just something not quite right but we have been talking to each other on face book and msn since on a regular basis and seem to have a really good banter.
Anyway he had asked me what i was doing and i told him i was at the dinner and dreading it. I said jokingly you could always join us for a drink around 9pm if you fancy. His responce floored me as he said yep ok that sounds like fun.
Anyway dead on 9 in he walks and he had scubbed up really well lol. i have been going to the rugby club for the past 12 yrs and have always been single in all that time but have a big circle of friends there. I hadnt said anything to anyone bar 1 just in case he didnt show.....
I hadnt realises she had had an extra place set at the table just in case i just persumed the empty space had been a no show.
He asked where i was as he couldnt see me and the club steward bought him over to our table just as our resident mc who really fancies himself as a comedian started his floor show. Hes very good at what he does and soon sussed out that there was someone in the room that he didnt know and was on it like flies round ****.
As descreet as we had tried to be about him coming was soon undone as the MC really didnt let up but was very funny. Vinny (sorry forgot to introduce you) took it all in his stride and was receptive to the banter without giving too much away.
One thing he doesnt do is dance but whilst i was up dancing he was chatting to the others on our table. A bottle of wine later along side a jug of water i was still sober at 2am. He had only been drinking water as he was driving and had to be up for work at 6am.
Evening over he offered to run me home and was very much a gent. Quick kiss and said i phone you later!!!
So what had been an evening of dread was turned round to be a fantastic eve and my sides are sore this morning but im not sure if thats from doing the high wires or laughing!!!
Ive also got a lunchdate with someone else on wednesday and hav decided im really not putting all my eggs in one basket just going to have fun and enjoy myself!!
carole
Anyway i had bought the most amaising Nichole Farri (size 6 petite) black chiffon dress with sequined design on the front and a little black chiffon belero style jacket to go with it!!!(thanks nic for yr patients shopping with me) and i felt a million dollars...
Whilst getting ready i had an email from a guy i had met for coffee a couple of months ago who was nice but there was just something not quite right but we have been talking to each other on face book and msn since on a regular basis and seem to have a really good banter.
Anyway he had asked me what i was doing and i told him i was at the dinner and dreading it. I said jokingly you could always join us for a drink around 9pm if you fancy. His responce floored me as he said yep ok that sounds like fun.
Anyway dead on 9 in he walks and he had scubbed up really well lol. i have been going to the rugby club for the past 12 yrs and have always been single in all that time but have a big circle of friends there. I hadnt said anything to anyone bar 1 just in case he didnt show.....
I hadnt realises she had had an extra place set at the table just in case i just persumed the empty space had been a no show.
He asked where i was as he couldnt see me and the club steward bought him over to our table just as our resident mc who really fancies himself as a comedian started his floor show. Hes very good at what he does and soon sussed out that there was someone in the room that he didnt know and was on it like flies round ****.
As descreet as we had tried to be about him coming was soon undone as the MC really didnt let up but was very funny. Vinny (sorry forgot to introduce you) took it all in his stride and was receptive to the banter without giving too much away.
One thing he doesnt do is dance but whilst i was up dancing he was chatting to the others on our table. A bottle of wine later along side a jug of water i was still sober at 2am. He had only been drinking water as he was driving and had to be up for work at 6am.
Evening over he offered to run me home and was very much a gent. Quick kiss and said i phone you later!!!
So what had been an evening of dread was turned round to be a fantastic eve and my sides are sore this morning but im not sure if thats from doing the high wires or laughing!!!
Ive also got a lunchdate with someone else on wednesday and hav decided im really not putting all my eggs in one basket just going to have fun and enjoy myself!!
carole
hopelesscase
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Ohhh busy week this week!!! vinny that came to the dinner with me took me out for lunch on monday and we then went for a walk......... he really is nice but i think i could wrap him round my little finger he is sooo eager to please!!!! and has continued to text me each day!!!!
Then out of the blue mick popped up on face book and was talking to me for ages.. i asked him why he never came to visit me and his excuse was that he just ran out of time!!!! still makes me question if im right for him surley if i was he would of contacted me before now!!! He also said he is seriously considering moving to canada if he can get his daughter to go as well..
I have also had my lunch date with pete today who is also very very nice and i think would be lots of fun we had lunch and then went for a walk at a local beauty spot. We ended up having a snog and he commented on how there wasnt anything too me. He knows about my weight loss and my skin issues and me being me when he had hold of me i made comment about my squidgy belly and he said that it didnt feel bad at all .....
I have just got my bike leathers so i can go out with my son and what i didnt realise is that pete is also a biker and has a fireblade!!!!! so guess whos going out on his bike with him although he did then say i hope you dont get blown off the back there is so little of you.. lol
Then out of the blue mick popped up on face book and was talking to me for ages.. i asked him why he never came to visit me and his excuse was that he just ran out of time!!!! still makes me question if im right for him surley if i was he would of contacted me before now!!! He also said he is seriously considering moving to canada if he can get his daughter to go as well..
I have also had my lunch date with pete today who is also very very nice and i think would be lots of fun we had lunch and then went for a walk at a local beauty spot. We ended up having a snog and he commented on how there wasnt anything too me. He knows about my weight loss and my skin issues and me being me when he had hold of me i made comment about my squidgy belly and he said that it didnt feel bad at all .....
I have just got my bike leathers so i can go out with my son and what i didnt realise is that pete is also a biker and has a fireblade!!!!! so guess whos going out on his bike with him although he did then say i hope you dont get blown off the back there is so little of you.. lol
hopelesscase
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well after several more dates with vinny he asked me if i fancied going away somewhere over the weekend. i told him that i was happy to maybe spend one eve with him to begine with but not the full weekend. hes really grown on me over the past week or so and although i feared he could be a a bit of a lap dog he certainly proved his worth last night!!
He had asked me where i wanted to go and i told him to surprise me!!!! he told me to bring an overnight bag but to make sure i had something with me to wear for dinner but just casual!!!
He picked me up atfter lunch yesturday and we drove to altringham not a million miles away but a very nice area where we arrived at a hotel. After booking in we went for a walk into the town centre and just had a wander around the shops. they have some very nice little independent shops but its also a fantastic way to discover peoples likes and dislikes. We grabbed a coffee and he also bought me some D&G summer perfume as its one of my favs but i had forgot to put any perfume in my bag so was going to treat myself.we then headed back to the hotel where we then got ready to go out for the eve.
I jumped in the shower first thinking i would have time to get dressed whilst he was in the shower but i have got to admit he just makes me feel so comfy it really didnt bother me him seeing me in the flesh. In fact there have bee a couple of times when out that we have seen some pretty awful sights of bad dressing and his atitude has been if they are comfortable enough to dress like that or body confident enough not to mind what others think great....So knowing that that is his attitude to things made me feel so much better bearing all....
Once ready we had a drink in the hotel bar and then a taxi arrived to take us to the most fantastic little italian resturant.... I choose musscles and sword fish and un beknown to me he had already spoken to the resturant to ask them to do half portions of whatever i ordered. we had eaten out earlier in the week and i said that i felt quite guilty leaving so much food especially when it had cost a lot. When i said that i fancied muscles he said great whet you dt eat i will and then you can have a main course as well. ha ha ha he didnt get any!!!!
and when my main course turned up the waiter asked if thet was enough.. I said it was perfect and thet is when Vinny came clean about having already spoken to them so i could enjoy my food without feeling guilty....
We then went to a really nice wine bar and spent the rest of the eve chatting.....
Breakfast this morning was a buffet and we then stopped off for a walk befor he dropped me back home!!!
He had asked me where i wanted to go and i told him to surprise me!!!! he told me to bring an overnight bag but to make sure i had something with me to wear for dinner but just casual!!!
He picked me up atfter lunch yesturday and we drove to altringham not a million miles away but a very nice area where we arrived at a hotel. After booking in we went for a walk into the town centre and just had a wander around the shops. they have some very nice little independent shops but its also a fantastic way to discover peoples likes and dislikes. We grabbed a coffee and he also bought me some D&G summer perfume as its one of my favs but i had forgot to put any perfume in my bag so was going to treat myself.we then headed back to the hotel where we then got ready to go out for the eve.
I jumped in the shower first thinking i would have time to get dressed whilst he was in the shower but i have got to admit he just makes me feel so comfy it really didnt bother me him seeing me in the flesh. In fact there have bee a couple of times when out that we have seen some pretty awful sights of bad dressing and his atitude has been if they are comfortable enough to dress like that or body confident enough not to mind what others think great....So knowing that that is his attitude to things made me feel so much better bearing all....
Once ready we had a drink in the hotel bar and then a taxi arrived to take us to the most fantastic little italian resturant.... I choose musscles and sword fish and un beknown to me he had already spoken to the resturant to ask them to do half portions of whatever i ordered. we had eaten out earlier in the week and i said that i felt quite guilty leaving so much food especially when it had cost a lot. When i said that i fancied muscles he said great whet you dt eat i will and then you can have a main course as well. ha ha ha he didnt get any!!!!
and when my main course turned up the waiter asked if thet was enough.. I said it was perfect and thet is when Vinny came clean about having already spoken to them so i could enjoy my food without feeling guilty....
We then went to a really nice wine bar and spent the rest of the eve chatting.....
Breakfast this morning was a buffet and we then stopped off for a walk befor he dropped me back home!!!
dreamofbeingslim
Can't wait for next appt
Aw that sounds like a lovely time away. He sounds like he is worth hanging on to.
