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hopelesscase
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Ha ha ha put my profile back on this morning to come home 8 hrs later to find 12 messages.
After working my way through them i have 4 left to work on.
keith phoned me to see how i was and i just said busy organising my dates for the next week. he had put his profile back up on friday and hasnt had 1 message ha ha ha
ohh im evil.
Ive told him i will re write his profile for him.
After working my way through them i have 4 left to work on.
keith phoned me to see how i was and i just said busy organising my dates for the next week. he had put his profile back up on friday and hasnt had 1 message ha ha ha
ohh im evil.
Ive told him i will re write his profile for him.
phatmomma
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Oh Carole am sorry it didn't go in the right direction but Keith sounded like a nice guy and not like some of the rats out there.. And you did get a lovely valentines present too 
Plenty more fish out there for you to hook with your very fine bait, unfortunately for Keith the ratio of men to women is in the women's favour lol, so he may be waiting a while lol xxx
Plenty more fish out there for you to hook with your very fine bait, unfortunately for Keith the ratio of men to women is in the women's favour lol, so he may be waiting a while lol xxx
hopelesscase
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First coffee date tomorrow eve. keeping my options open!!
hopelesscase
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Ah well lovely guy but not for me too eager to please and invaded my personal space a little too much. I think i could of wrapped him round my little finger if id of wanted. lol
hopelesscase
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Well ive had fun this week. Load of emails and getting to know people ive had 2 coffee dates with one guy rob and were going out for a chinese on thursday. Talk about compleat contrast keith was 6ft tall and quite chunky!!!
Rob is 5ft 1in and very muscular. Ive never been out with a short guy befor but it was quite nice to be on a level playing field. Hes a maintainance worker at a big factory at trafford park and is divorced he has 4 grown up children the eldest being 32. Hes 48 and was married at 16 for 25 yrs.
we have both got our statuses set as looking for friends and see what develops so just taking things nice and slow but i do have another date tomorrow daytime with a uni lecturer from preston. Again looking for friends.
will keep you posted
carole
Rob is 5ft 1in and very muscular. Ive never been out with a short guy befor but it was quite nice to be on a level playing field. Hes a maintainance worker at a big factory at trafford park and is divorced he has 4 grown up children the eldest being 32. Hes 48 and was married at 16 for 25 yrs.
we have both got our statuses set as looking for friends and see what develops so just taking things nice and slow but i do have another date tomorrow daytime with a uni lecturer from preston. Again looking for friends.
will keep you posted
carole
hopelesscase
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Well i had a lovely day today met the uni lecturer who is very good looking and very intresting to talk to but he was sooooo autistic. He gave very little eye contact and was very intrested in my job, has a very varied and intresting life himself. He was very keen to know my views on the theory that everyone has some autistic traits in them!!!!!!
I was already a little puzzled as whilst we had been talking via email he had been very whitty and entertaining but once we moved over to msn his responces had become shorter and at times innapropriate or stiffled. When i say inappropriate i dont mean as in rude. I may be wrong but i dont think so.
I then met up with the lovely Phatgirl. she is feeling a little better and im sure will be back posting shortly.
We had coffee and then i had an appointment with Mr Ammorie which i will post about on my diary. We then went and had a little retail therapy and although i had already decided what to wear for my dinner date this eve i ended up picking up the cutest black and white dress(very mod looking) in a size 6 with some accessories to go with it. As the afternoon wore on i began to feel very nervose about my date noe i hadnt felt like this about meeting the lecturer in the morning or meeting rob on previouse dates. As to form i found it very difficult to eat and had had 1/2 a potatocake for my breakfast and then several skinny lattes throughout the day.
Dressed for the evening i felt a million dollars! My sons face said it all when i came down stairs he did a double take and said he better be good enough for you. You look fantastic and even gave me a kiss.
Rob arrived to pick me up and came in and met liam (my son 21 today) told me i looked stunning and off we went.
No sooner had i got in the car i had a text off my son saying hes tiny!!! enjoy yrself!
We went to the chines buffet, rob knew about my surgery so ordered drinks and then sat paitently whilst i drank my OJ befor getting anything to eat. |We then had chicken and sweetcorn soup, waited he had another drink befor we had our starters. He had an assortment and i had 2 pancakes with duck etc, i actually finished long befor him but i still waited a while longer befor getting my main course of noodles and assorted meat dishes. He then had another drink (he doesnt drink alchol at all ever) befor getting our dessert i just had fruit.
We then sat talking for half an hr befor going through to the lounge for coffee.
Whilst we were in the lounge he nipped through to the loo and when he came back he went and paid the bill. I went to get my share out to pay and he was having none of it.
We were in the resturant for 3 hrs altogether and i felt really normal. He was so considerate i didnt feel rushed and he didnt bat an eyelid to the portion size i ate.
We then went back to mine and my son made us a coffee and we just sat talking. He left about midnight as he had to be up for work at 5am but not before giving me the most amaising kiss.!!!!!!!!
Im working now till next friday but he is coming round on sat night with a DVD so we will see how much he has taken on board as i dont do horror and hes a keen fan of them. Hope he doesnt loose any brownie points. lol!!!!!!!
I was already a little puzzled as whilst we had been talking via email he had been very whitty and entertaining but once we moved over to msn his responces had become shorter and at times innapropriate or stiffled. When i say inappropriate i dont mean as in rude. I may be wrong but i dont think so.
I then met up with the lovely Phatgirl. she is feeling a little better and im sure will be back posting shortly.
We had coffee and then i had an appointment with Mr Ammorie which i will post about on my diary. We then went and had a little retail therapy and although i had already decided what to wear for my dinner date this eve i ended up picking up the cutest black and white dress(very mod looking) in a size 6 with some accessories to go with it. As the afternoon wore on i began to feel very nervose about my date noe i hadnt felt like this about meeting the lecturer in the morning or meeting rob on previouse dates. As to form i found it very difficult to eat and had had 1/2 a potatocake for my breakfast and then several skinny lattes throughout the day.
Dressed for the evening i felt a million dollars! My sons face said it all when i came down stairs he did a double take and said he better be good enough for you. You look fantastic and even gave me a kiss.
Rob arrived to pick me up and came in and met liam (my son 21 today) told me i looked stunning and off we went.
No sooner had i got in the car i had a text off my son saying hes tiny!!! enjoy yrself!
We went to the chines buffet, rob knew about my surgery so ordered drinks and then sat paitently whilst i drank my OJ befor getting anything to eat. |We then had chicken and sweetcorn soup, waited he had another drink befor we had our starters. He had an assortment and i had 2 pancakes with duck etc, i actually finished long befor him but i still waited a while longer befor getting my main course of noodles and assorted meat dishes. He then had another drink (he doesnt drink alchol at all ever) befor getting our dessert i just had fruit.
We then sat talking for half an hr befor going through to the lounge for coffee.
Whilst we were in the lounge he nipped through to the loo and when he came back he went and paid the bill. I went to get my share out to pay and he was having none of it.
We were in the resturant for 3 hrs altogether and i felt really normal. He was so considerate i didnt feel rushed and he didnt bat an eyelid to the portion size i ate.
We then went back to mine and my son made us a coffee and we just sat talking. He left about midnight as he had to be up for work at 5am but not before giving me the most amaising kiss.!!!!!!!!
Im working now till next friday but he is coming round on sat night with a DVD so we will see how much he has taken on board as i dont do horror and hes a keen fan of them. Hope he doesnt loose any brownie points. lol!!!!!!!
dreamofbeingslim
Can't wait for next appt
Sounding good so far Carole. Fingers crossed for you.
tiarasandtantrums
Kia Kaha
He sounds like a little diamond! Good luck xx
hopelesscase
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Oh well recieved a phone call at tea time to say he wasnt coming round. Not that he didnt want to but he is having hassel off an ex girlfriend who he finished with 3 months ago because of her possessiveness. Someone had told her that they has seen him in mc donalds talking to a woman and they looked very cosy. Since we went out on thursday night he has been having hassel and yesturday was camped outside his flat.
He said the last thing he wants if for her to follow him and start giving me any grief which he thinks she will. Hes blaming himself as he has remained in touch with her thinking that they could still be friends.
His plan of action now is to sever all communication with her but she is a friend of his sisters. There is a wedding and a christening coming up and he thinks she will be at both but is going to talk to his sister.
Ive surgested we cool it for the time being as i really dont want to be going into a relationship with so much baggage hanging around and he really doesnt know what she is capable of he was with her for 8 months but she got worse and worse. When they first split she damaged every panel on his car.
ive told him to keep in touch but im keeping my options open!!!
what would you do???
He said the last thing he wants if for her to follow him and start giving me any grief which he thinks she will. Hes blaming himself as he has remained in touch with her thinking that they could still be friends.
His plan of action now is to sever all communication with her but she is a friend of his sisters. There is a wedding and a christening coming up and he thinks she will be at both but is going to talk to his sister.
Ive surgested we cool it for the time being as i really dont want to be going into a relationship with so much baggage hanging around and he really doesnt know what she is capable of he was with her for 8 months but she got worse and worse. When they first split she damaged every panel on his car.
ive told him to keep in touch but im keeping my options open!!!
what would you do???
hopelesscase
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Well since last updating i have been chatting to the guy who i think/thought was autistic. We are meeting for lunch today. I asked him about lack of eye contact etc and he says the reason for the lack of eye contact was that he found it very difficult lo look at me without wanting to ravish me and didnt want to scare me off !!!!! lol
Had a night out with my friend last night and im more convinced that internet dating is the right way to meet someone as i was stone cold sober last night had a fantastic evening but was constantly hit on my drunk married men!! think all the single ones must of been at home on their computers!!!!!
Had a night out with my friend last night and im more convinced that internet dating is the right way to meet someone as i was stone cold sober last night had a fantastic evening but was constantly hit on my drunk married men!! think all the single ones must of been at home on their computers!!!!!
hopelesscase
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Well im still convinced hes autistic. Had a very nice lunch and hes a pure gent but i dont know somethings not right although i do find him really attractive.
Anyway hes been away for the weekend and we've not made any futher plans so im off for another coffee date tomorrow with someone else......
Anyway hes been away for the weekend and we've not made any futher plans so im off for another coffee date tomorrow with someone else......
