sharon2014
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BandedHuns Mad Fat Diary
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WeightlossDreamer
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Yum dinner looks lush and your figure well simply stunning! Enjoy the peace while the oh is away Hun. I know how hard it is I hate bein awY from my hubby. X x
BandedHun
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Thanks dreamer-
He upset me going again when he promised it was only once a year , then he went and booked September when it's meant to me my turn to go in holiday, but because my little girl changed school it was not right to pull her out of school this early- he went and booked it again without telling me, he's also gone and taken a large chunk of money out his account double what he said he was taking, he's pissed me off and I'm angry with him. Plus he hasn't even bothered talking to me or the DD. Give up. Just gonna enjoy my week xxxx
He upset me going again when he promised it was only once a year , then he went and booked September when it's meant to me my turn to go in holiday, but because my little girl changed school it was not right to pull her out of school this early- he went and booked it again without telling me, he's also gone and taken a large chunk of money out his account double what he said he was taking, he's pissed me off and I'm angry with him. Plus he hasn't even bothered talking to me or the DD. Give up. Just gonna enjoy my week xxxx
WeightlossDreamer
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Defo enjoy your week even more so now then Hun! X x
tweetybaby
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I would go mad if my OH booked a holiday for himself without discussion full stop. I understand how you must be feeling.
BandedHun
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Today I'm still 11.3 so happy about that.
I've been for a Sunbed, had a facial and brought some new clairns cleaner yummy.
Off to lunch with my aunt now just to stay out and happy.
Oh I went mad when he finally decided to speak yesterday at 1am my time 3am his ... I was fuming so upset he hasn't bothered face timing us to see if we were ok. But today is a new day , TOTM from hell at the moment. Darn! Which is rely not helping me as I feel bloated and in pain. Then after the school run we are of toy daughters friends house for tea ... So we are nice and busy today till tonight. I think it's gonna be celeb big brother and bed for weigh in tomorrow! And I'm planning swimming tomorrow follows by a cheeky nandos!
Hope everyone's ok?!!!? Xxx
I've been for a Sunbed, had a facial and brought some new clairns cleaner yummy.
Off to lunch with my aunt now just to stay out and happy.
Oh I went mad when he finally decided to speak yesterday at 1am my time 3am his ... I was fuming so upset he hasn't bothered face timing us to see if we were ok. But today is a new day , TOTM from hell at the moment. Darn! Which is rely not helping me as I feel bloated and in pain. Then after the school run we are of toy daughters friends house for tea ... So we are nice and busy today till tonight. I think it's gonna be celeb big brother and bed for weigh in tomorrow! And I'm planning swimming tomorrow follows by a cheeky nandos!
Hope everyone's ok?!!!? Xxx
sharon2014
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Well done with your weight love!!
Oh no wonder your mad at your other half!!! As you say it's new day, just you spoil you and wee one!!
Oh enjoy your nandos tomorrow xxx
WeightlossDreamer
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not suprised you went mad i would have too x x
BandedHun
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Lost 3lb this week and was slimmer of the week..., again!!! Hummmmm another bag of fruit coming home and tubs and certificates.
Had a lovely afternoon and went to the local horse sanctuary Ahhh it was amazing spend three hours walking around they are desperate to raise funds so we adopted a little donkey called Goldie who is 20 years old and has one eye.... It's been a lovely afternoon.
Cheeky Chinese tonight and sweeties with X factor and back on the good wagon tomorrow onwards .....
Hope everyone's had an amazing saturday .....
Had a lovely afternoon and went to the local horse sanctuary Ahhh it was amazing spend three hours walking around they are desperate to raise funds so we adopted a little donkey called Goldie who is 20 years old and has one eye.... It's been a lovely afternoon.
Cheeky Chinese tonight and sweeties with X factor and back on the good wagon tomorrow onwards .....
Hope everyone's had an amazing saturday .....
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sharon2014
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Well done love!!!!!
That sounds like a lovely day!! I bet goldie was gl as to meet you and your daughter! My mum donates to the donkey sanctuary!
Enjoy your night tonight!! Chinese sounds like heaven lol!! I'm having homemade stew which I'm looking forward to xx
WeightlossDreamer
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Awww love the piccies! Looks like you've had a brilliant day! Well done on slimmer of the week! Slimming world has worked wonders for u! X x
emmahc1975
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Loving the pics, well done on the weight loss too. Your doing amazingly well
Crystalrainbow
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Banded sweetheart your strength and determination amazes me everyday. You have grown from a broken, sometimes a desperate woman to who we see before us today, having been thru so many life changing situations and dealing with them so beautifully. This morning i had this word rattling around in my head, and i feel it fits you as well as me..... respect. Somehow, deep down l feel were are finally starting to respect ourselves...... not sure if this ever sounds right but once we learn to respect ourselves, everyone else will start to respect us too
hugs and lots of love hunni. Your looking fantastic x x x congrats on the fab losses too a true inspiration x x x x
hugs and lots of love hunni. Your looking fantastic x x x congrats on the fab losses too a true inspiration x x x x
flutterby1966
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We'll done bh. Its easy to get down thinking of negatives. But for every negative there is a positive if we seek hard enough. OH away ... But you look like you are having a fab time with a special person. Needing and wanting OH are totally different! You are a strong, beautiful woman and he is fortunate to have you in his life whether he realises it or not ... But that's his issue not yours! Continue to have a lovely weekend
flutterby1966
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:giggle: Why thank you. LOL I am not perfect but lots better than I used to be. I have the balance I want though, which is why it works for me. When I read your posts I read some very similar experiences/emotions ... life is so much better with the band to help me along my journey ... Seems like you have that right balance too x
life is so much better with the band to help me along my journey ... Seems like you have that right balance too x
BandedHun
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Yes, there were some nitrate ring comments from the last photo and when I showed my parents the picture ( they don't know re :band) ...
Parents are like your too think head looks too big. But I still want 9-10lbs more off.
Everyone comments positive and very insightful. Words such as respect, yes I like this . I kinda agree I respect myself more. Feel more self worth. If I only saw now what I was then. It's crazy coz your insecurities don't disappear with the weight which is scary, in fact I feel a little more insecure, examples - I walk down the road now, men think they can shout comments at me... Met with the sturn face if ... WTF ... U didn't wolf whistle of make rude suggestions 4st ago ... Why now?
I hate the fact men seem to think they can flirt and fancy u now, well I'm the same girl, it's made me quite angry today, thinking about it. I'm still the same nice girl all that's different is weight. Clothes confidence. But my face make up rtc... Never changed, hummmmm having a bad day. Chinese guilt and wine hangover followed by excessive amounts of chocolate today has lead me to feel so very sad and lonely and is give my right arm for a cuddle right now .... Urgh! Why do I feel so insecure!!!!!
Parents are like your too think head looks too big. But I still want 9-10lbs more off.
Everyone comments positive and very insightful. Words such as respect, yes I like this . I kinda agree I respect myself more. Feel more self worth. If I only saw now what I was then. It's crazy coz your insecurities don't disappear with the weight which is scary, in fact I feel a little more insecure, examples - I walk down the road now, men think they can shout comments at me... Met with the sturn face if ... WTF ... U didn't wolf whistle of make rude suggestions 4st ago ... Why now?
I hate the fact men seem to think they can flirt and fancy u now, well I'm the same girl, it's made me quite angry today, thinking about it. I'm still the same nice girl all that's different is weight. Clothes confidence. But my face make up rtc... Never changed, hummmmm having a bad day. Chinese guilt and wine hangover followed by excessive amounts of chocolate today has lead me to feel so very sad and lonely and is give my right arm for a cuddle right now .... Urgh! Why do I feel so insecure!!!!!
Crystalrainbow
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(((((((((((((((((cuddle)))))))))) coming your way sweetheart. Please don't allow your head to ruin what good you have achieved. Easier said than done i know........ why can't we stop beating ourselves up eh... the positives only hang around briefly before the next low... i ride the same emotional roller coaster too......... high, elated, confident then bam back down riding the lows and self hate. Thats where the 'respect' comes in....... i feel it was the lack of respect for myself which got me here in the first place, i feel it stems from lack of respect from others too but learning to have it in ourselves again is not easy. One little bump in the road knocks us right back down again. Sometimes we need to hear words from others to help put us firmly back on that road we tread...... i know i;m with you this week. A week of emotional ugh has gotten me back down too. So these words i write to you also serve as a reminder to myself..... you can be my mirror sweetheart you have done amazingly well, you continue to amaze me, you are kind and loving, strong yet vulnerable. Inspiring and bloody beautiful toooooooo lift that head high and see what you have achieved....... have a fantastic week without OH not sure i would be as accommodating lol but enjoy ... make the most of a nice girlie time with little en x x x xx huge hugs heading your way
sweetheart you have done amazingly well, you continue to amaze me, you are kind and loving, strong yet vulnerable. Inspiring and bloody beautiful toooooooo lift that head high and see what you have achieved....... have a fantastic week without OH not sure i would be as accommodating lol but enjoy ... make the most of a nice girlie time with little en x x x xx huge hugs heading your way
