treacles1977
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True carol true !! I've had my cry, I've called my bezzies and mam gave me a cuddle ( even 36 year olds need them !!!)
True carol true !! I've had my cry, I've called my bezzies and mam gave me a cuddle ( even 36 year olds need them !!!)
Flipping gout today in my middle toe of all places. Do we not go through enough with this dieting lark without adding to it urrgghh.
I'm ok carol just hobbling about. Wanted to go walking today but that is now out of the question so p'd off at that... Anybody would think my body dosent want to exercise & lose weight in the process ... Ahhhh wait I forgot ... It dosent grrrrr x
True carol true !! I've had my cry, I've called my bezzies and mam gave me a cuddle ( even 36 year olds need them !!!)
Hi I'm ok thanks not making much progress with the weight before the balloon and getting worried now !! 5 weeks to go !!!
Glad you've not let this woman put you off xx
I have actually laid off of myself a little this last week. Ironically am within my calories easily - have just gone back to bariatric basics. Slightly more carbs, slightly less protein but feel less mopey about it all right now. 1.8lbs off didn't hurt.
? Looks like things are looking up!!!
I had a fab day training!!! Learning loads! Fingers crossed I will be heading for this job head first in September! Fingers crossed for me
carol b
Sometimes I think we become so focused on targets & weight loss that we can't see the wood for the trees and need to step back a little every so often so as to see the bigger picture as well as take a breather. I am too scared to do that at the moment because not only are too many targets all coming at once but the " big one" is amongst them. I feel like I can't breathe sometimes for the stress of it all. The targets seem harder to reach at the moment too as things appear to have slowed down a tad dispite the effort being put in but I really don't know if its all in my head or if its the strain of getting to that big 50 bmi playing with my head! I truly believe that once I get there and the stress of it all has gone the weight will start to fall off again.
Not being negative here btw it's just my thoughts on things just now. X
Not negative at all hon! The thing is our bodies react to stress. We forget that everything we do with our mind has an effect on our body. I was diagnosed with something a little while ago and the meds are playing merry hell with me, been signed off work, nausea pain dizziness, the works. And there I was worrying about my calories! I went over every day this last week- not by much. But felt out of control. Went back to basics, still tracking but more because I don't want to give up, I just want to start being kinder to myself. And I had a better loss than I've had in a little while. And if the numbers aren't perfect - so what? I'm still losing and trying to lose, still eating with awareness. And maybe i'll rethink once I'm better. But I'm on these tablets for another 2 months almost. I just have to do what I can. Milestones are a funny one - I thought 10 stone would feel amazing...and it did, except there was 10 stone more. I though that being size 18 was the be all....but there's size 16. We can find ourselves endless sticks to beat ourselves with. Or we can try to find a way that treats our selves with kindness.