Raynebubble
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ooh just read you last post.... big big hugs to you hun... your life is gonna get so much better... new home, new friends, new body.. your amazing xxx
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my hospital experience
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PurpleKylie22
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Hun, I have added you to Facebook I am Kylie McDonnell.
Wow, I don't know what to say to you. I cant believe he would do that to you and your daughter, what kind of idiot is this woman he is with... Surely its not hard to see the fact that there is a lot of tension there and to get the heck out. I mean, its the only sensible thing to do, isn't it?
By the time it happens, you wont care at all. But remember hun, one day he is going to look at you, with your awesome body, all of your freedom, your own place and he will wonder why he was always such a prick to you. It might not be that soon. But don't ever forget, you have the upper hand. You have your own life and you are living it. He has no control over you anymore and he never EVER will again.
Wow, I don't know what to say to you. I cant believe he would do that to you and your daughter, what kind of idiot is this woman he is with... Surely its not hard to see the fact that there is a lot of tension there and to get the heck out. I mean, its the only sensible thing to do, isn't it?
By the time it happens, you wont care at all. But remember hun, one day he is going to look at you, with your awesome body, all of your freedom, your own place and he will wonder why he was always such a prick to you. It might not be that soon. But don't ever forget, you have the upper hand. You have your own life and you are living it. He has no control over you anymore and he never EVER will again.
VikiB
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Thanks darlin I'm so glad I have such good friends
I'll be alright. I don't feel amazing right now but hopefully soon I will.Hope you are doing ok.
lots of love
VikiB
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LOL softer word than usually pops in my mind but it fits perfectly. Glad you're my friend.
Hope you are alright
lots of love
VikiB
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I didn't know what to say either so I just went to bed...angry! This is not the first woman he has invited over. He did the same thing at Christmas. She came on the 23rd and I went in hospital on the 27th she was still here when I got out on the 2nd and he got angry when I refused to go with him to take her to Victoria station the day after. The women are not very bright and for some reason don't understand why I don't want them here and am not very friendly to them. hmmmm wonder why that is???
He is losing his control and I think he sees it. I will get better and stronger everyday while he will have to look in the mirror and see the ugly man he is inside and out.
Thanks for being my friend.
Hope you are well.
lots of love
VikiB
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I hope your stay in Jerusalem has been nice.
Tonibones10
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O my god what a pardon my French D**K. Why do it :'( want me to come and beat him up? I'm good at hating men and making them pay.... I really hurt my sisters ex then got him put in a cell and sent back to Ireland lol so much fun ... I'm so sorry your going through this but I'm glad your starting to get stronger! Hate can sometimes be your best friend lol loads of love Xx
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VikiB
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O my god what a pardon my French D**K. Why do it :'( want me to come and beat him up? I'm good at hating men and making them pay.... I really hurt my sisters ex then got him put in a cell and sent back to Ireland lol so much fun ... I'm so sorry your going through this but I'm glad your starting to get stronger! Hate can sometimes be your best friend lol
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I am going to let Karma get him...trust me she will. She has got everyone before him so his day is coming. And so is mine
I think I like your attitude though Thanks for being a friend. I'll be ok honeylots of love
Tonibones10
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Well I'm always here if you change your mind, I'm very protective of my friends and family lol I've punched my sisters current fiance cos he was being an idiot ... al always be your friend huni xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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VikiB
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Id get great enjoyment out of watching you pummel him but he is not worth you getting into any trouble for and you are not the first to offer to give him a beating lol
PurpleKylie22
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Did you decide what to do about your ex who wants to take you out on Valentines?
Tonibones10
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VikiB said:
Haha bless ya, Xx
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VikiB
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No not yet but he calls me everyday JUST to ask how I am. I don't love him and don't want to lead him on so I am going to tell him again that I just want to be friends. He's a nice guy I'm just few up with guys!
PurpleKylie22
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Aww thats understandable! I'm sure he gets that too, but its great you have someone who is understanding and supportive. I don't blame you for being apprehensive and as long as he knows its nothing more than friends then if he gets the wrong idea its really his own fault! Sounds like he just wants to be there for you though, maybe making up for past sins? Plus the added bonus of him not being so lonely if he has you to talk to as well
VikiB
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Aww thats understandable! I'm sure he gets that too, but its great you have someone who is understanding and supportive. I don't blame you for being apprehensive and as long as he knows its nothing more than friends then if he gets the wrong idea its really his own fault! Sounds like he just wants to be there for you though, maybe making up for past sins? Plus the added bonus of him not being so lonely if he has you to talk to as well
The only thing is he keeps saying he loves me and my response is always I know. I wish he wouldn't say it but he does. His only real sin was falling for someone who was still living in the past (me). I think I may spend Valentines with him though because it will be better being with someone who cares then with someone who doesn't...might be wrong way to look at things idk
Newmelani
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My dear Viki.....
Just read your posts. Brings tears to my eyes. How could someone be so cruel to you? You are one of the kindest people I know. I just wanna scoop you up and give you a huge hug! I'm glad you were comfortable enough to post here so we can be here to comfort and support you. Hold your head high and know that you are amazing and soon you'll be free of him and can be happy once and for all. I hope you're having a better day. Love you girl!
Just read your posts. Brings tears to my eyes. How could someone be so cruel to you? You are one of the kindest people I know. I just wanna scoop you up and give you a huge hug! I'm glad you were comfortable enough to post here so we can be here to comfort and support you. Hold your head high and know that you are amazing and soon you'll be free of him and can be happy once and for all. I hope you're having a better day. Love you girl!
PurpleKylie22
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Oh I see. Decelerations of love may be great but really not what you need right now! Well as long as you are honest with him there is nothing else you can do. You never know what may happen, in a years time maybe you would decide that you wanted to try things with him, but he cant spend his life waiting on that hope! So just be clear as you already planned to be, then go out for the meal with him Its much better to be with someone on V.day then alone, even as just friends. With the way the idiot you live with is behaving, he will not be on his own that night anyway, so the last thing you want is being stuck at home with him cozing up to someone new.
Its much better to be with someone on V.day then alone, even as just friends. With the way the idiot you live with is behaving, he will not be on his own that night anyway, so the last thing you want is being stuck at home with him cozing up to someone new.
VikiB
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I have always tried to be a nice person. The person I am on here is the person I really am. I have no need for pretense and lies and none of you need any fake people in your lives either. I don't really know why he seems so intent on hurting me unless he really is trying to get me to leave him because he's too much of a coward to leave me. The ex is a good guy but I have had my fill of guys telling me I mean everything to them and then finding out it was just another bs line to get what they wanted. Maybe I should stop trying with men and look for a decent woman...??? Idk if anything will ever change about how I feel about the ex. Things are definitely changing about the way I feel about the husband though.
lots of love
lots of love
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