my hospital experience

[angee]

Hahaha! I told my OH I was using my remaining heterosexuality on him so he should appreciate it!

I like that

 

[Snow White]

I like that

I think I should put it on a t-shirt!

 

[VikiB]

We could form a she woman man haters club lol

 

[Nige65]

We could form a she woman man haters club lol

Women got to love em should start a trade union

Safe to say i would not get membership :whoopass:

 

[Snow White]

We could form a she woman man haters club lol

Excellent idea!

 

[PurpleKylie22]

Your ex sounds like a true friend, your very lucky and its great you managed to clear the air and everything is out in the open so you don't need to worry!
Whatever you have decided to do, I hope you have a great night tonight <3 Good job on the weight loss too!

 

[Tonibones10]

ive just read about some of you meeting up, id love to meet you all 1 day but being pre op id be too scared yet :S xxx

 

[VikiB]

I have done nothing today but sit around feeling sorry for myself I have had a few really crap days and just been sleeping, not eating or doing much else. I did manage to get up long enough to go to the bathroom yesterday and drink a bit of milk but stayed in bed the rest of the day
I would love to meet up with some of you as well but feel too ugly and fat atm to do much of anything.

 

[Tonibones10]

aaww honey i hope you feel better soon theres not much i can say about eating and drinking but i hope you find something that cheers you up!, wish i could come give u a hug hun xxx
Take care
Lots of Love!
xxxxxx

 

[NOMOREyoyo]

Let me know if u ever fancy mtg up Viks.... I feel fat, hideous & ugly more days than not hunni - we can be the ugly sisters ....howeva u feel always remember some1 else prob does too & that some1's more than likely me xxxxxx ((((( -_-)))))

 

[VikiB]

Where exactly are halifax and berkshire?? What county?? I live in Kent.
I know I should stop wallowing in self-pity and pull myself together and hopefully will really soon. My cat is starting to look at me funny...think he's wondering why I haven't been dressed in anything but pajamas for three days Not to mention my bed head hairstyle lol.
I did try to eat today but got sick so am going to try a coffee and maybe a little something for tea later. I'm letting him get to me and it has sent me to rock bottom with depression I'm going out tomorrow (to exs) and Thursday (to besties daughters to make something with her gorgeous 6 year old son) no matter how I feel. I need to shake this off!!!
Thanks for the much needed hugs
Love yous lots

 

[Tonibones10]

halifax is in west yorkshire huni, where is kent? and how far is it from london or peterbrough too? thats where my brothers live xx

 

[Tonibones10]

its good that you are going to go out, its the best thing to do, im the same huni ive got problems with my hubby (nothing like yours so i wont bore you with details) am feeling down in the dumps and just feel crap but i havent been out in 3 days... i must go for a walk or something im going to end up being scared of leaving the house again at this rate!!! drives u mad doesnt it! x x x x x x x x x x x

 

[VikiB]

I live a train ride from London. I'm in southeast london
Yes it does drive me mad.
Whats up with your husband...I'm here if you want to talk about it.

 

[PurpleKylie22]

just make sure you keep your fluids up hun, if you dont drink enough you could hurt yourself Sending you big hugs, I know how you feel with the depression, I'm letting all of this get to me aswell. I have spent the entire past month either really happy thinking I will get my op, I can be normal and the other half (okay well two thirds) thinking its never ever going to happen and the NHS will find any reason to say no that they can. Im ignoring the OH, well mostly. He was in bed till 11.30 ish today and has said about 2 sentences to me today, neither had anything to do with the date, so sod him, Im not saying anything to him either!

Anyway... Fluids! DRINK MORE

I would love to meet up with you girls but I'm up in wee bonnie Scotland (where it hasnt snowed by the way) and don't drive, maybe if I move down to Leicester I can get around more then

 

[Tonibones10]

if im completely honest i just dont feel married :S dont talk much dont sleep in the same bed, dont even kiss, not a peck i dunno, just feel like i live with a friend, a friend who i dislike most of the time too hahaha im not going to go on about it hun you have enough to worry about ... my brother lives in stevenage so not far from london so if i stay with him 1 day i could meet you in london or something xxxx

 

[VikiB]

Scotland??? woohoo I have always wanted to see the loch are you close to there?
I would defo meet up with either/both of you. We all need something to take our minds off our OH and their indifference to us.
I didn't drink or eat anything but a mouthful of milk yesterday but have drank more today just haven't eaten yet. I will try really hard to keep my fluids up. Thanks for caring Don't worry honey you will get your surgery I felt the same when I was waiting for mine

 

[PurpleKylie22]

No Im not, although I would love to take the kids there one day! Im in Aberdeen, although outside of the city in a small village, its kind of like the middle of no where if you dont drive! haha But the kids have school in walking distance and there is an ASDA! so its not all bad.

And thanks, I know I will get there one day, even if it does mean moving! I'm lucky that it is an option for me if it comes to it so I need to stop complaining. Maybe moving would be good in the long run anyway! Its just the hassle of it all and trying to decorate a new house on benefits. Leicester is close to London and Birmingham so its a great central location

 

[VikiB]

Sounds good and decorating is fun. You can always have a house warming party to get some needed things

 

[PurpleKylie22]

Nice idea, but unfortunately I really don't have many friends. I have always been a bit of a loner