My family know, and a few friends do too. My friends from the gym know, they'd see the difference in me if not anyway, but also told them because I trust them and like them. All but one person I have told are all perfectly fine about it, the one person who had something bad to say just got told it's my body and life, my choice!
Anyone that I eat in front of know, I will tell anyone who I know will support me in my decision, and anyone that doesn't, obviously aren't supporting or true friends. My family have been amazing, all wanting to know how it's all going, any appointments I have etc, they're just so encouraging because they all know how much I've struggled, I'm very glad I have them
I understand where you are coming from not wanting to tell people, but like it's been said, some of you are finding it hard to keep it under wraps with the portion sizes and things etc. just do what feels right to you, whether you want to tell someone that you've had surgery, or just that it's your new way of eating - and it's working! Don't worry about what others think, it's your life, your choice and you've done it for you, not them! Xxx
Kirsty