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pandora said:
I have never been "in touch " with myself , I amble through life , day by day , I don't feel I control my destiny or anything like that , life just happens for me . Is that wrong ?

Not wrong. No ones beliefs are wrong. They are right for you :D
 
I have never been "in touch " with myself , I amble through life , day by day , I don't feel I control my destiny or anything like that , life just happens for me . Is that wrong ?

I believe it's only wrong if it's not what is working for you right now. If it is wrong for you, then only you can change it.
 
I think my main problem is loneliness , apart from work 3 days a week I am home most of the time . Stupid thing is I was invited to a party in a couple of weeks time , my first though ? " can't be arsed " which is silly really .
I don't even know how to look at my inner self etc :(

THink its may be time to start something new so you can meet some new friends and do something different. have a think and look around see whats on offer out there, volunteers always needed in various places, and believe it or not there are some nice people out there, sound slike you have got yourself into a rut. You guna have to push yourself to do something about it or it will get worse. Keep your chin up girl and take up those reins you were given the day you left hospital for that new happier healthier new start, its waiting for you but it won't come knocking you have to go and get it. Good luck xx:p
 
HiddenBeauty said:
I believe it's only wrong if it's not what is working for you right now. If it is wrong for you, then only you can change it.

What Kitty said! Lol!
 
HiddenBeauty said:
Get yourself a pretty new dress and go. I know its easier said than done, but look at it at easier done than said. The more you do it, the easier it gets. That first step is always going to be the biggest, like a bunji jump but once you take it then it's fun.

*hugs in the mean time*

Also are there any groups for things you like to do where you could meet people?

The party theme is red white & blue . I hope my jeans will fit by then , so there's the blue . I'm not a dress person lol .
I have a week left at work , then 21 days off , so that will be my aim , to sort some excersize plan our for then .
Chris , I fund walking boring & pointless lol , but my friends hubby is giving my bike an overhaul , so I how I can start cycling soon .
 
Fuffs said:
Sorry if this is airy fairy to you or anyone, but since I connected with Angelic energies on 2009, I have never felt lonely.

If interested, go on YouTube, and find guides Angel meditations. Or spirit guide meditations. Sit quietly, close your eyes and breathe deeply.

I am having to reconnect and do all this again as I have lost my way and hit rock bottom yesterday.

Hope this helps. If not, feel free to disregard it :) xxx

Not airy fairy hunni , I will try that . I often feel there is something missing in my life , whether it is spiritual , love , I don't know ( I know I have my kids live , but there are different types of live arnt there & that type hasn't been in my life for many yrs )
 
The party theme is red white & blue . I hope my jeans will fit by then , so there's the blue . I'm not a dress person lol .
I have a week left at work , then 21 days off , so that will be my aim , to sort some excersize plan our for then .
Chris , I fund walking boring & pointless lol , but my friends hubby is giving my bike an overhaul , so I how I can start cycling soon .

ok so no dresses ;)

I know what you mean about finding wlking boring and pointless, which is why i'm gonna try to go swimming once a week then relax in the sauna as it's amazing for the skin. If you lived closer I could poke you into coming with me.
 
pandora said:
Not airy fairy hunni , I will try that . I often feel there is something missing in my life , whether it is spiritual , love , I don't know ( I know I have my kids live , but there are different types of live arnt there & that type hasn't been in my life for many yrs )

You are right :D and the connection will give you spiritual energy, which in turn will give you more of a zest for life. Costs nothing, yet adds an extra dimension :)
 
I know I am the only one who can change things ., thanks for all the love & support <3
 
pandora said:
I know I am the only one who can change things ., thanks for all the love & support <3

And we can help and support you as you make those changes. Thank you also for your love and support xxx
 
Always Sophie , always . You are such an ongoing support & inspiration xx
 
We are the wings that help you when you want to learn to fly
 
HiddenBeauty said:
We are the wings that help you when you want to learn to fly

That reminds me of that Bette Midler song , wind beneath my wings , one of my fav , always makes me cry
But thanks for the sentiment
 
pandora said:
That reminds me of that Bette Midler song , wind beneath my wings , one of my fav , always makes me cry
But thanks for the sentiment

Makes me cry too lol. From the film Beaches. Just beautiful :D xxx
 
Now that songs gonna be stuck in my head lol
 
Fuffs said:
Makes me cry too lol. From the film Beaches. Just beautiful :D xxx

It is beautiful , another thing that makes me cry is the poem footprints
 
HiddenBeauty said:
Now that songs gonna be stuck in my head lol

Sorry Kitty :$ ( just sent you Fb friend request incase you wonder who Cheryl is lol )
 
pandora said:
It is beautiful , another thing that makes me cry is the poem footprints

I have that on the wall in my hallway. It's so true and so beautiful :)

A connection to music and poetry is a spiritual thing. If music can touch your soul and make you cry, that's a connection deeper than like.

So you are more dimensional than you think xxx
 
That reminds me of that Bette Midler song , wind beneath my wings , one of my fav , always makes me cry
But thanks for the sentiment

One of my faves to. Well just by talking through your thoughts n feelings will have stirred your mind a bit into thinking how things could change in your life you just have to be brave now and likeKitty siad go to the party it gets easier, if you not a dressy up person wear your jeans get a coloured belt an different coloured shirt or t shirt to cover all 3 colours,doesn't have to cost much. I love themed parties and fancy dress, with being a larger lady my nxt door neighbour an di have made many an outfit. I have been a Goddess, santa, fire woman, old lady and lots of others the fun is going out with a different front on cause people arent sure who you are. Its hillarious. xx good luck make it happen xx;)
 
no need to be sorry :) and will sort out the FB request if you can cope with wierd lil ol me
 
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