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All booked and now on that road of no return

Crystal , I bet with a few of your stones/jewels attached to it , you could start a new trend !
 
funny that, jewels talking :) ..... just been browsing pinterest (i love pinterest did i mention lol) came across thigh gap jewellery???!!!! what ever next eh..... not that i'll ever see a thigh gap BUT who the heck wants jewellery hanging there LOL
 
What the hell ? That look so rediculous ! Roflll ?. It's like a huge pointer that says ....
Look at my camel toe !

Hahahah !
 
I hate how some people usually males I have to say think it's acceptable to say things to people ...how dare they I was walking along in Chichester we I went for my MDT and some young guys were in the town messing about and one of them shouted to his mate as I walked past ....watch out beached whale ahead ...I felt like crying but I just held my head up high and carried on ...what on earth makes people do that and say thjng like that ....
 
ohhh you lovely lot have bought a smile to my face and a tear to my eyes reading your posts .....I can totally get where your coming from and those things we hate....
My worse things are ALWAYS BEING HOT!!!!!! god how I hate this now maybe it's my age ...haha and the fact I'm a hairdresser and working with dryers all day but I truly can't wait till I can be one of those skinny minnis who are always complaint they are SOOOOOOO COLD and stand shivering by the heaters...actually I don't know if it's being hot I hate or them ...hahaha.
The other thing is scanning the room to see what's the best route to a table or out of the place without having to move people or try and squeeze yourself in so your arse or tummy doesn't protrude onto someone's table!!!! and then getting to the seat and your wondering will it hold me and will my backside fit in it ......
two of my pet hates .

I always though I was alone with the table and seat thing. But I a, surprised at the amount of us on here who think the very same thing ! Lol !

So many things on this thread could have been written by me! The heat thing I hate, I turn the thermostat down, OH turns it up! Not sure how it will feel to be the other way and to feel cold but at least we will match for once! The hot thing is so much worse on holiday, I hate being a hot sweaty mess!

No CW, you are not alone in the table/route to the door thing - quite often I will end up doing a full maze walk around the room rather than the direct route to the door, much to my OH's amusement, just in order to avoid chair backs or squeezing between tables. Hate it.

My biggest take away message since I seriously looked into WLS in January is that I am not alone. I thought it was just me that felt all these things, that thought about things in a certain way. It is a relief to realise that I am not alone. I am not a freak in the way that my head works. Other people feel exactly like me - that was a big thing to realise and it was like a huge weight off my shoulders to realise that.
 
I hate how some people usually males I have to say think it's acceptable to say things to people ...how dare they I was walking along in Chichester we I went for my MDT and some young guys were in the town messing about and one of them shouted to his mate as I walked past ....watch out beached whale ahead ...I felt like crying but I just held my head up high and carried on ...what on earth makes people do that and say thjng like that ....

Oh Tuu, I am so sorry that you had to go through that. People are cruel and those that have never struggled with their weight will never ever understand what it is like. You did the right thing - keep your head high and don't let it get to you, easier said than done, but you mustn't let it get to you. Hugs.
 
I hate how some people usually males I have to say think it's acceptable to say things to people ...how dare they I was walking along in Chichester we I went for my MDT and some young guys were in the town messing about and one of them shouted to his mate as I walked past ....watch out beached whale ahead ...I felt like crying but I just held my head up high and carried on ...what on earth makes people do that and say thjng like that ....


Wait until you get really skinny...adult woman then think its acceptable to make comments about you out load to anyone that will listen! Ive had more confrontations since being skinny than fat..people are just rude full stop.
Begger them and just focus on enjoying life gang! X
 
To be honest whatever we are like is nothing to do with anyone else.., their lives must be very boring if they have to get involved and comment :(
 
I hate how some people usually males I have to say think it's acceptable to say things to people ...how dare they I was walking along in Chichester we I went for my MDT and some young guys were in the town messing about and one of them shouted to his mate as I walked past ....watch out beached whale ahead ...I felt like crying but I just held my head up high and carried on ...what on earth makes people do that and say thjng like that ....

This sort of infantile behaviour makes me want to hurt them so bad ..
All I can say is they must have some self worth issues themselves to be hurling insults at strangers .. Assholes .. Poor excuses for human beings . I bet they are cruel to animals as well , that type of person .

A group of three young teenagers were sitting outside my local shop , and as I passed I heard the young boy say . ' I thought rhinos were kept in a zoo '
I spun on my heels , walked right up to him and asked him to say it again to my face . Of course he wouldn't . So I let him have it with both barrels . I know I shouldn't have as he was maybe about 12/13 at the most ..
I turned to one of the girls with him and asked her if she was impressed by what he had said to me , she just turned bright red and looked away , asked the same of the other girl and she just shrugged her shoulders , not making eye contact with me ..
Then I turned on him , lowered my voice so only those three could hear me ..
Asked him if his balls and dropped , and stared at him . He went so red I thought he was going to cry . Then I asked him again to call me a name , he was by then choking back tears , I asked him again and promised I would give back another insult in his direction and assured him I could out insult him till it was time for his bed , which must be 7.30 due to him being a baby ..
He got up and walked away , his 2 very subdued girls walking the opposite direction away from him ..
I know I should have turned the other large cheek , but I couldn't . I couldn't have 3 kids laughing at my expense .
 
I would have asked him if he wanted to know what it was like to be sat on by a rhino! I still think they should bring back the cane in schools! I'm a bit old school...national service too!! X
 
Some people can just be so horrible. It's something I will never understand.

Why does my size have anything to do with you? What right do you have to pass judgment on me, just because I'm over weight?

I always thought one of the worst things about being fat was that other people knew my "issue" I mean most people have "issues" but they don't surface till you get to know a person... mine were right there on my backside, on my stomach... 200+ pounds of issues. They knew I was out of control and every other good thing in my life was negated because of that.

I can't wait for my surgery. The closer it gets, the more frustrated with my weigh I get.

Somethings I certainly won't miss are:

1. Having to drive around for "diva parking" because walking across the car park is tiring.

2. Going shopping with friends and only being able to buy purses and shoes (you now know where my purse and shoe addiction stems from.)

3. When people you are with asked for a booth and you weren't sure you could fit.

4. Going to concerts and not being able to fit into the t-shirts.

5. Being hot all the time.

6. Narrow aisles in stores (especially antique stores many times my bottom almost took out breakables sitting on tables).

7. Being limited to three clothing stores.

8. People analysing what you order at restaurants. Forget going into an ice cream shop.

9. Airplane bathrooms. Enough said.

10. Tray tables on planes and sitting in the middle seat.

11. People always saying, "You have such a pretty face."

12. Walking by a group of teenagers and hoping they didn't make comments.

13. Having pictures taken.

14.Ordering things like special shirts for an event or bridesmaid dresses.

15. Those desks with attached chairs at University.

16. Not fitting on roller coasters and amusement rides.

17. Getting into contortions to cut and paint my toes.

18. Worrying when I hear a creak in a chair.

19. Backseat seat belts.

20. Old-fashioned movie theater seats and stadium seating.

21. Packing a small getaway bag is impossible. Two garments take up the whole bag.

22. Summer clothing (sleeveless, short, revealing, definitely not fat-friendly)

23. Never getting a piggy back ride or being swept off my feet.

I'm sure there are many more and it's been therapeutic making this list.

It's also really nice to realise I'm not alone. I'm not strange or unusual. This makes me happy. Xxx
 
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Gem it could have been me writing that list. There is one i hate where i go shopping with my sister and after being her assistant and hanging everything back up that she tries on because lets face it when you can only go to 3 shops and one top is 40 quid its seems like my sister can try the whole damn shop on and then proceed to tell me how fat she is at size 12/14. I hate it !!!The likely hood of me finding something that A. Is in my size then B.whether i like it sometimes doesn't even come into it as i have no other choices.. that and never being able to have a bath cos if i try to wash my hair i cause a tidal wave and soak the bathroom floor
 
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