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Debs ramblings about her NHS sleeve...

Well it's Friday 12th. 48 hours since surgery. I cannot say I am enjoying the last few days! The pain is more than I had expected and the exhaustion is overwhelming. Bring sick with a brand new sleeve is not at all nice and sadly happened every day so far.

The anti sickness medicine actually makes me sick. So they said I can stop it for now.

I have no hunger. I have no energy either though!

I am getting to the loo and bowels and bladder are ok.

The port sites are tense and tender. Not a surprise I guess.

Came home yesterday at around 3pm. Not 26 hours after the surgery started.

I am holding on to the fact people get through this and it's just a short phase. It's horrid though. I am not able to do much for myself never mind look after my child.

That said - I feel a bit better than yesterday so that's ok

Hope everyone else is well xxxxx

Great to hear from you Debs and pleased your feeling a little better. I can relate to the exhaustion, I am the same and I am 11 days out but feel so so tired. Saying that I am managing the fluids and purees to a point although still less than 300 calories.
ou will feel better each and every day and will soon be running around with that daughter of yours!
Keep plodding on and take care
Jackie
xx
 
Bless you Deb, all I can say is hang on in there, it really does get better. Those first days are horrid but it will be a distant memory before you know it. Take care x
 
Well it's Friday 12th. 48 hours since surgery. I cannot say I am enjoying the last few days! The pain is more than I had expected and the exhaustion is overwhelming. Bring sick with a brand new sleeve is not at all nice and sadly happened every day so far.

The anti sickness medicine actually makes me sick. So they said I can stop it for now.

I have no hunger. I have no energy either though!

I am getting to the loo and bowels and bladder are ok.

The port sites are tense and tender. Not a surprise I guess.

Came home yesterday at around 3pm. Not 26 hours after the surgery started.

I am holding on to the fact people get through this and it's just a short phase. It's horrid though. I am not able to do much for myself never mind look after my child.

That said - I feel a bit better than yesterday so that's ok

Hope everyone else is well xxxxx
Know exactly how you feel about the sickness. The brought me clear soup and the smell was so strong I was retching. Like you said hopefully a short phase. I had to use the bedpan my legs went to jelly :blush: the first day. But completely whacked. Went for a wee wander up and down the hallway this morning then slept like the dead for 2 hours.

Peeing OK but cannot vouch fir my bowels yet. Has some sort of xray yesterday am, not barium but like that, it was disgusting and I was dry retching for a hour after. It is meant to give you the runs but no sign yet.

Hope each day gets easier for both of us. :)
 
Morning, hope your feeling brighter Debs, it's a tough time energy wise but it does improve. Keep taking the pain killers if you have any discomfort, and keep drinking, and try to walk round the house a little bit, it all helped me. Rest is also important as you have had major surgery and your body needs time to recover and adjust. The discomfort and tiredness will go and each day your should feel slightly better. Take is easy and take your time recovering, I have read some peoples journeys and they bounce back very quickly, I didn't and everyone is different so listen to your body and do your own thing. Have a good weekend.
Kim x
 
Well crawled to Saturday 13th. Day 4 I guess? I only woke 3 times during the night. Always thirsty and needing the loo. On a positive note I am able to get out of bed more comfortably than at the outset which was pure agony. Now it's just tweaks.

I have taken my clexane injection - I have 2 a day. Chewed my way through the lansoprazole oral dispersable pill and ingested the 14 fall it drops. The drops have a taste that's beyond unpleasant and not being able to gulp a drink afterward to remove the taste is a pig! That said, I've had them!

I got the GP to prescribe and anti sickness pill which dispersed in the mouthy as the liquid metroclopramide was actually making me sick. Since that substitution I've not been sick.

Other than this I have Adcal-D3 to chew up and that's it. Phew. The meds are filling - daft I know.

Yesterday I managed one Fortimel shake (200 cals and 20gms protein) I am supposed to get in two so will work harder today.

I've had a shower and washed my hair today so feeling more human. It has wiped me out though so I am now sat up in bed.

I feel much better that day 1/2. Just as well as that was a beastly experience I wouldn't want to endure again - thankfully short lived.

I am optimistic today is going to be easier - Fingers crossed!

Thank you for all you warm and supportive messages xx
 
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I should mention they did give me paracetamol which fizzy dissolve in water. Problem is for me it dissolves in a fair amount of water and they can only be sipped. So it can take hours to take them and the taste and impact on the tummy isn't great. I took 2 on day 1 in hospital. Another 2 on day 2 and then gave up with pain meds :(
 
Debs
I only had those paracetamol in hospital as I like you took hours to sip them, I managed without, I have had 1 since for a headache and I only dissolved in a tiny bit of water this seemed better and I followed it by a diluted orange juice. Getting dressed was the most tiring thing for me, I washed or showered then had to sit on the bed then struggled with underwear and clothes then again had to sit in bed for some time to recover, this still takes me longer now but you will get there just take it easy and remember that TV won't watch itself lol .
Kim x
 
Hi Debs,

So glad to hear you're feeling better and can see the light :)

Being pre op I have no nuggets of advice but I'm thinking of you and after so long in the process you deserve every success this is going to bring you.

Claire x
 
Hi Debs, So glad to hear you're feeling better and can see the light :) Being pre op I have no nuggets of advice but I'm thinking of you and after so long in the process you deserve every success this is going to bring you. Claire x

Claire please don't let my words around day 1-4 put you off. It's obviously very uncomfortable to start with and it was greater than I envisaged for sure but already today I feel a little brighter so don't get freaked by my ramblings that's never been my intention xxx
 
Oh no Debs, thank you for being honest. Forewarned is forearmed as the saying goes.
I'm reading all the diaries avidly now!
The more information the better xx
 
Well managed to keep a sieved cup of soup down today and 1litre of water so I am pleased.

Toilet remains all ok and has done from the start. I had dreaded constipation. Thankfully it's not materialised.

Weight has been scary! I was 17 stone 4 at admission. Came home on Thursday and in 1 day had risen to 18 stone 3. Today I was 17 stone 10. All fake I know but it does freak you out a bit!

Hope everyone is ok.
 
Well managed to keep a sieved cup of soup down today and 1litre of water so I am pleased.

Toilet remains all ok and has done from the start. I had dreaded constipation. Thankfully it's not materialised.

Weight has been scary! I was 17 stone 4 at admission. Came home on Thursday and in 1 day had risen to 18 stone 3. Today I was 17 stone 10. All fake I know but it does freak you out a bit!

Hope everyone is ok.

I was really puffy after my op. You could see it in my hands and feet easily but it seems to be going away now. I might be like fatbloke1 and weigh myself after 6 weeks. :D wonder if I can manage that? Lol. Anyway you retain fluid for a bit after the op so I would not stress on e scales love.

Still whacked, sore and nauseous here but have managed a couple of cupasoups and some actimel yogurt drinks.

Hope each day gets better for us both, lol I was thinking today as day 3 post op. :)
 
It is a bit like being hit by a bus!!!

I shall not get on scales again - quite pointless as I had 5 bags of IV fluids in hospital and as you say I am as inflated as it comes. My saggy belly doesn't exist as its all puffed out like I've been blown up with a foot pump. My skin is taught as a result. Huge. But taught!

Drugs are a buggar to ingest.

It's very early days though isn't it!
 
Ah Debs, well done on getting to that losers bench. The first few days are horrid but it will get easier. I agree, those vitamin drops are revolting :eek: I was quite glad when I had to have oral antibiotics for a wound infection. I had the vitamin drops, immediately followed by a chalky tasting antibiotic chaser, but it was heaven in comparison! All the best for a speedy recovery :)
 
Another unexpected day 3/4 issue.

Irrational emotional moments!

Today I've cried watching a cartoon. Wept at length at the Trooping of the Colour. Cried when my sister sent a text to say she loved me and sobbed for forty minutes just watching the flipping news!!!

So I hereby add irrational lack of emotional control to the early post op phase of a sleeve!!!!
 
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Another unexpected day 3/4 issue.

Irrational emotional moments!

Today I've cried watching a cartoon. Weeped at the trooping of the colour. Cried when my sister sent a text to say she loved me and sobbed forty minutes watching the news.

So I hereby add irrational lack emotional control to the early post op phase of a sleeve!!!!

Oh Debs, I can relate to this, I think I was about day 6 and I sobbed wondering where my stomach actually was! Stupid or what? I also cried when I went out for coffee with my husband when I could see and smell all the lovely food. It wasn't that I wanted any, just mourning for the ability to if I wanted to! I am pleased to say that this has now passed and I am thinking rationally again!
The bizarre world of a gastric sleeve!
Hope you feel a bit more upbeat soon xxx
 
It is a bit like being hit by a bus!!! I shall not get on scales again - quite pointless as I had 5 bags of IV fluids in hospital and as you say I am as inflated as it comes. My saggy belly doesn't exist as its all puffed out like I've been blown up with a foot pump. My skin is taught as a result. Huge. But taught! Drugs are a buggar to ingest. It's very early days though isn't it!

I didn't count my IV bags but there was always one there lol I asked my hubby for. My jewellery back so I could put my rings on and they wouldn't fit OMG. Wild horses could not induce me to get on those blummin scales. Will wait Debs, it does appeal to me to wait. 4 weeks or 6 weeks cos then you would not even know of you had a stall to stress.

It is very early days, haven't tried taking any drugs on tablet form yet, might start tomorrow, Omeprazole without the capsule ewww.

Still we will get there hun. No worries. :D hugs
 
Op Day - 10/6/15

Some recollections about the process on the day I want to record before I forget. The process I had at Walsall was to arrive at the ‘arrivals lounge’ at the hospital for 0700. All patients for ops start out there. One by one we were called in and had pre ops – I was weighed, blood pressure checked, urine test for pregnancy, finger prick test for blood sugars etc. I was also seen by the surgeon’s registrar and my consent was taken again, and I was asked to explain the procedure. They checked when I had last eaten, drank or smoked etc. They also asked if I had managed my bowels pre op! lol.

Then back to sit in the lounge whilst you wait to hear the running order. There were lots of other types of surgery going on so each list is different – they told me I would not be first as they had a band to do and as they are day patient only they do them first. I was quite shocked then to be called at 0910 and be told – you are first! I wheeled my suitcase down the corridor and was wrist banded with my ID and told to get into a gown – you can keep on your pants!!!! I was then asked to pop on a very fetching mesh mop hat and told to tuck all my hair into it.

They took my bag. I popped my own dressing gown over the hospital robe and waddled behind them to the operating theatre – it felt like a long walk and I can imagine it would be easy to freak out a bit then – I didn’t as I was in full babble mode but something to prepare for.

Into theatre to the anti room just before the main operation site – sat down and Mr Yousef the anaesthetist greeted me. Usual checks that I am Debbie and was having a sleeve. Cannula then placed into the left hand. Inserted some pre op pain relief, some anti-sickness and taped it all down. Then for the first time ever – I walked into the actual operating theatre – clock said 09.38hrs.

Dressing gown off, surgical gown loosened off and told to lie on the bed in the middle of the room. All the kit was on the table - yikes – and the room had people in there preparing for my op. The nurse got me to bring my feet right down so it pushed on the foot board of the theatre table. She then started tying my legs to the bed with a bandage. She explained the bed moved during the op and it prevented me falling off! She then asked me to pop my arms along the side of the bed – so I was in the 'on the cross' position and she strapped my arms to the bed at upper and mid arm with yet more bandages – then something else went into my hand – if felt cold – and then no memories until I woke in recovery at 11.05hrs.



I had a drip upon waking and indeed they pushed 5 bags through during my 24 hour stay. I got on the ward at 12pm. At 2pm I got up and walked to the toilet and when I got back I got changed into my pyjamas. Getting from lying in bed to standing wasn't fab! I could not easily sit up from lying anyhow and prefer to pull myself up - but with my tummy all tender it was just even harder. I sort of rolled out and hoped for the best - the grace of a hippo covers it I guess!

I woke 4 more times that day for the walk to the loo – long way it seemed at the time! I was sipping water throughout – but only 30mls at a time – 6-7 sips.

I was up to the loo 3 times during the night following obs etc. My cannula failed at 0300 and a doctor came to redo it at 0400 or so.

I woke the next day at 0600 and went and had a shower and pulled of the dressings as instructed. They applied replacements as it was still weeping a bit.

I was given unlimited water from 0900, a cup of tea and cup of milk. I had a watered down orange juice at 11am. The surgeon’s team visited me, the bariatric nurse and bariatric dietician also came to see me. I had blood tests at midday. The pharmacy sent my discharge meds at 1pm and at 3pm I left. I was sick 3 times in hospital – each time after I had been given Metoclopramide which ironically is an anti-sickness potion.

The nursing care was excellent - but they were all super, super busy. I was in a bay of 6 ladies - 2 were cancer patients in a very bad way whose family were allowed to stay longer due to the severity of their condition. Another lady was suffering with liver failure and was sick at least every 10 minutes and call out due to the awful pain she was sadly in. One lady was there with a stoma emergency, and another had a gastric emergency and was being line fed - she could not speak any English so her daughter was also there most of the day. One of the ladies went for surgery at 3 in the morning - so rest was impossible - and I could not complain because it was no ones fault and they were all far worse than me. I was quite guilty being there because I had essentially an eating disorder. The tiredness was overwhelming and made everything seem worse.

The journey home was very uncomfortable. I was so tired I fell asleep in the car - every bump causing pain to jolt me awake - the seat belt fell at the worse place and I was thankful of the pillow in the boot which helped once it was retrieved.

Being home - I crawled upstairs and slept. It was bliss!


 
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It os good to write it all down whilst it is still fresh. I did that today as well, though have remembered more since. Like the hairnet thing lol. On and my pants were missing after my op :eek: i found them later in a plastic bag in my wardrobe, covered in iodine and some blood that has obviously been rinsed out.

Anyway as I said good to get it out and helpful for others. :)
 
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