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my hospital experience

VikiB said:
Hiya everyone,
I love the clip Ruthie and would love the whole song. Don't worry though I may let my daughter listen to it I will never pass it around. You are very talented:)
I am not going to worry about my friend being angry with me. I am doing what is right for me and if thats a problem for her then thats just a problem for her.
I mentioned earlier in this thread about an ex who came to see me in hospital...small dilema...he has been buying me things and yesterday said he and his brother and sister-in-law would love for me to go to Belgium (I have wanted to go there for years) with them this summer. He asked if he could get me things for Valentines day and he wants to take me out to buy some new clothes (none of mine fit now) and to dinner (that I can eat) on the 4th....the 4th is my husbands birthday though (not sure what I should do as I want to go but also don't want to send the wrong signals or rock the boat in the house right now). My husband never does anything but a card for me for Valentines day so not sure if I should go out or not that day either. Does me going out mean I am playing the ex (I do enough his company but atm I'm not interested in a relationship beyond friendship with anyone...he does know this though. I'm not the type to play head games)? Does it mean I am being just as bad as my husband?? I don't know....advice anyone?????
Also have noticed that if I have a drink or something to eat my stomach makes weird noises afterwards...not disturbing really just a bit embarrassing in a quiet room lol. Does anyone else feel nauseous when you have had enough food?? I get this but I like it as it prevents me just eating until everything is gone like before.
Anyhow blah blah blah me...sorry.
Have a beautiful day
Much Love and hugs
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arhh that is nice of you x...if he understands that you are not after a relationship then enjoy his company hun, its so nice you have the support, which your hsband is definately not giving.... put yourself first hun!!
as for the noises... lol... when i have a cup of tea sometimes if its quiet all you can here is me making noises... i just laugh about it now xxx
 
Hope ur better soon hun x

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Hi everyone
I'm feeling lots better today. I am taking my betahistine and only have a slight earache today...no dizziness/sickness at all. Thankfully.
My husband is getting on my last nerve...he asked me today if we could afford to lend someone £125 (a girl he chats up) ummmm H*LL NO!!! Cheek or what?? I tell you what when I finally do walk away (hopefully soon) it will be forever and like I never existed in his life. I don't think I even want to be his friend anymore. There has been way too much hurt involved.
I'm finding pureed food impossible...other than fruit and brussel sprouts I just can't stand anything else...any ideas what else I could have. I'll really be glad to just eat real food no matter how little I actually consume.
anyhow darlins thanks for all your lovely compliments and advice
Have a wonderful evening
much love
 
Really glad to hear you're feeling better hunni .
Hope it won't be too long until you are able to move out & really get on with the new life you deserve xx
 
I'm glad you're feeling better. I can't believe how much you've changed... I'm so proud of you for realizing you're better than the way he treats you. You are going to be so happy on your own! You're a wonderful person! You deserve to be happy!
 
VikiB said:
Hi everyone
I'm feeling lots better today. I am taking my betahistine and only have a slight earache today...no dizziness/sickness at all. Thankfully.
My husband is getting on my last nerve...he asked me today if we could afford to lend someone £125 (a girl he chats up) ummmm H*LL NO!!! Cheek or what?? I tell you what when I finally do walk away (hopefully soon) it will be forever and like I never existed in his life. I don't think I even want to be his friend anymore. There has been way too much hurt involved.
I'm finding pureed food impossible...other than fruit and brussel sprouts I just can't stand anything else...any ideas what else I could have. I'll really be glad to just eat real food no matter how little I actually consume.
anyhow darlins thanks for all your lovely compliments and advice
Have a wonderful evening
much love
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I am4 weeks post op now and i have been having .

Ready Brek
cadburys mash with mushy peas and gravy
jactet potato and tuna
soups
baked beans
ice cream small amount

I tried some haddock last night but that made me sick.
 
Vicki: so glad you're feeling better! What did you think of the whole song?

I'm going to upload a new pic of me to the gallery in a sec..
 
Viki - just wanted to say Hi as New on this site x
Just read through your posts and think you've done marvellous hun xx
Sometimes I think we all have to listen to our hearts and move on to be able to reach our destination x
Good Luck with your journey and Enjoy your New Life xx
 
Hi everyone
I'm really sorry I haven't been on for a few days. I was sick and that made me feel down and been a bit blue and a bit p***ed off so just haven't been writing here as much as I should...my apologies. You lovely people have been keeping me sane and I really should not let too much time pass.
I am growing stronger mentally and physically everyday. Things that used to send me into a depression and make me cry for days are just making me angry now. The me with the iron spine is really starting to take steps forward and the mouse me who just took it all and blamed herself for everyone elses short-comings is fading away. I find myself making plans for my future alone with happiness instead of planning a death that wouldn't traumatise my daughter forever and looking at the future with dread. Don't get me wrong an ocassional thought of just disappearing comes into my head and I know being alone will be hard but lots of other people do it and I can to. I have lots of friends here and a few outside of here so I will never really be alone anyway. Maybe I will finally finish that book I started writing 20 years ago and become the next J.K. Rowling...lol...seriously though maybe I will get it published and make myself financially stable:)

I love the song Ruthie. I have loaded it onto my mp3 player:) Hope you don't mind.
As always thank each and every one of you for your compliments, advice and continued support...you'll never know how much I appreciate it:)
Much Love my Darlins
Have a fabulous day:)
 
Nige65 said:
I am4 weeks post op now and i have been having .

Ready Brek
cadburys mash with mushy peas and gravy
jactet potato and tuna
soups
baked beans
ice cream small amount

I tried some haddock last night but that made me sick.
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Ice cream doesn't make you sick??? I really want ice-cream but fear it will make me sick.
have a great day.
much love
 
VikiB said:
Ice cream doesn't make you sick??? I really want ice-cream but fear it will make me sick.
have a great day.
much love
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No i have a tub of cornish icecream not made me sick had a bit of toffee sauce on it only have it when my mouths tasting rubbish though you will know what i mean just to taste something nice.
 
I went to Bluewater in week 2 post op and had a fat free frozen yogurt - strawberry it was, and delicious! I was petrified of dumping or being sick but neither happened, for obvious reasons I didn't have any of the toppings.

Might be a safer bet than ice cream to start with Vicki.

BTW, you are doing great - and as for Ms Ruthie, I've just seen her in her leathers!!! what a foxy pair you two are becoming - can't wait for my transformation!
 
Viki, it's so nice to hear from you! I was hoping you were OK. I'm glad the mouse Viki is fading. I was the same way when I was married. It would have ruined my life had I stayed. Now, you can look to the future and know that it's just going to be getting better! How much weight have you lost now? I'm excited for you! I can't wait to see your life transform. You are such a kind and beautiful person. You have a great future ahead. Keep your head up sweetie.... Love ya
 
Hiya
I am definitely going to get a small tub of ice cream when I go shopping Tuesday. If it makes me sick I will know won't I? I have peanut butter now and it's not sugar free (though is low sugar) and it is wonderful...can't wait to have it on crisp breads in three weeks. Also think I'm going to get some pate'.
I've posted a few photos...one is from December a few days post op and the other is from yesterday:)
As of today I have lost 40 lbs/2 stone 12 lb/20 kilos :) :)
Thanks for the kind words...always make me feel so much better:)
Much love :)
 
Ruthiep said:
Vicki: so glad you're feeling better! What did you think of the whole song?

I'm going to upload a new pic of me to the gallery in a sec..[/QUOTE]


Have just taken a look. You are looking fabulous darlin:)
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