Pandora's path to slim

[flowerofshona]

Thats just how i was feeling hun it was not 'real' but now it is !!!!
Getting more so as im having the 'LAST' of things.
You only have to shout if you want anything done hun either me or John will help out.

 

[pandora]

Thanks hunni , same here , until I can't lol xx

 

[Newmelani]

I don't feel like this is real either. I don't think it's going to feel real until I'm at the hospital checking in!

 

[pandora]

Over the past weeks I have been reading peoples diaries & come to the conclusion I am a fraud.
So many have been through difficult times & traumas & have used food as a comfort , a friend who is always there .
My life has been relatively ok .
Happy childhood , nor that I recall a lot of it . I do remember having the feeling of being the mistake compared to sister being planned.
Never that popular either with peers or boys .
Losing the love of my life because I was hurting & wouldn't listen .
Married someone who in hindsite I married cos I was ready to settle down , not cos I loved him , tho I thought I did at the time . Followed by 14 lonely years & mental abuse .
So nothing major traumatic , basically I just made bad food choices on a continuing basis , with interspersed attempts to lose weight.

 

[NOMOREyoyo]

You are DEF not a fraud, you havent had it easy hun, none of us have....deep down there lies issues. Our overeating and weight is a sympton of our unhappiness not the cause, it then makes the unhappiness more unbearable as you get drawn into the awful abyss of feast or famine during which time we get larger and larger!
So try not compare yourself to others in the 'reasons for being here' the fact is you are and you are a very supportive member of the team - end of much luv xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[pandora]

Thanks Clare hunni , that means a lot
How did first day back at work go ? xx

 

[NOMOREyoyo]

Good Girl
Yes it was ok, I like the whole 6-2 thing LOL shame it cant last
No pain, managed to drink 1.25l today so all good xxx

 

[pandora]

Fantastic , hope it continues xx

 

[NOMOREyoyo]

Me too
I'm off for a bath, need to warm up - trouble with next to no calories = chilly xxx

 

[Newmelani]

Over the past weeks I have been reading peoples diaries & come to the conclusion I am a fraud.
So many have been through difficult times & traumas & have used food as a comfort , a friend who is always there .
My life has been relatively ok .
Happy childhood , nor that I recall a lot of it . I do remember having the feeling of being the mistake compared to sister being planned.
Never that popular either with peers or boys .
Losing the love of my life because I was hurting & wouldn't listen .
Married someone who in hindsite I married cos I was ready to settle down , not cos I loved him , tho I thought I did at the time . Followed by 14 lonely years & mental abuse .
So nothing major traumatic , basically I just made bad food choices on a continuing basis , with interspersed attempts to lose weight.

you are not a fraud! In fact your story sounds like mine. Although not extremely traumatic, still lead to relying on food. Same end result.... And same fabulous future

 

[Tonibones10]

Over the past weeks I have been reading peoples diaries & come to the conclusion I am a fraud.
So many have been through difficult times & traumas & have used food as a comfort , a friend who is always there .
My life has been relatively ok .
Happy childhood , nor that I recall a lot of it . I do remember having the feeling of being the mistake compared to sister being planned.
Never that popular either with peers or boys .
Losing the love of my life because I was hurting & wouldn't listen .
Married someone who in hindsite I married cos I was ready to settle down , not cos I loved him , tho I thought I did at the time . Followed by 14 lonely years & mental abuse .
So nothing major traumatic , basically I just made bad food choices on a continuing basis , with interspersed attempts to lose weight.

You are no fraud honey not in the slightest! Your story is different to mine but still ends the same (needing help with weight) never feel like you don't deserve it because you definitely do I didn't turn to food for comfort to be honest I don't know how it started but then I could stop xxxxxxxxxxxxxx you deserve this just enjoy making a new life its what were all here for! lots of love xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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[Fuffs]

Your story sounds like you have emotional struggles just like most of us. You have every right to be here and this op will help you lots. You have been such a good friend to me on here also. Thank you xxx

 

[pandora]

Thanks Toni & Sophie , I do try to support others & be a friend as I appreciate how hard this is for all of us . I also believe that support is a two way street , so I give as I receive , much love girls xx

 

[Tonibones10]

Thanks Toni & Sophie , I do try to support others & be a friend as I appreciate how hard this is for all of us . I also believe that support is a two way street , so I give as I receive , much love girls xx

Thanks hun, were always here to support you and this isn't xfactor lol the 1 with the most dramatic story doesn't always win! We all win if we try hard enough we have all gone through enough to get where we are today! Just with weight its self let alone backgrounds too ... loads of love hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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[pandora]

Just ordered Dominos pizza , then that's that crossed off the goodbye list

 

[Tonibones10]

Urgh pizza bad memories of the other day Haha xxx

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[pandora]

Sorry Toni
well just said to the pizza before eating
" Dominos , as yummy as you are , you have done no favours to my health over the years , goodbye !"

 

[Tonibones10]

Sorry Toni
well just said to the pizza before eating
" Dominos , as yummy as you are , you have done no favours to my health over the years , goodbye !"

Bye bye pizza! Xx

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[pandora]

Well pizza is obviously unhappy ar being told good bye cos I feel quite nauseous right now . Tried to sleep but just got this feeling in my stomach , would like to have x good belch but its not happening :'( :'(

 

[Newmelani]

Sorry Toni
well just said to the pizza before eating
" Dominos , as yummy as you are , you have done no favours to my health over the years , goodbye !"

Good riddance pizza! Good for you Pandora!