Thought I might start to add to this. One week after bypass. Might be helpful to others, maybe see what other people think too, if I'm getting it right.
B - A ramekin of Total 0% and puréed banana with a little bit of soy milk to thin it out.
L - A very small bowl of leak, potato and ham soup. Puréed and thinned out with water.
D - A ramekin of extra fine lean mince with slow cooked soft carrots puréed with low salt gravy and a ramekin of mash potato, mixed with a little bit of low fat cheese again puréed and thinned out with soy milk. This was delicious but way too much and I was in pain for a little while after. I had to fight old demons and force myself to leave half the potato. I don't think I needed the potato at all but I do still feel full which haven't by this time other days.
D/S - 1 pint of water, 1 peppermint tea and 1 half a cup of soy milk caffeine free tea. Trying to increase my fluids each day but still find it hard to drink more, liquid seems to hurt more than food, even with just little sips.